because when we had first met we didn't even use a condom then. and all of his ex-girlfriends says that they didn't use one either. i feel that if he has never used a condom with any of his girlfriends why would he have one then? he is really making me think that it's not his but i believe it is. should i believe him or not?
2006-10-19 05:42:09 · 34 answers · asked by christy j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't believe him! He is lying.
2006-10-19 05:45:03 · answer #1 · answered by Kris 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, haven't you heard of AIDS/HIV!!!!!!!!! Why would you even want to have sex with someone without a condom? But to answer your question, maybe he finally met a girl who had enough sense to tell him that either he's going to use a condom when having sex with her or he can go home and have sex with hiself. If I were you, I would go get tested just to be on the safe side. I know he's your boyfriend and all, but if you're here asking questions about what you should do, then evidently you don't trust him and you think that he may have had sex with someone else. Next time, USE A CONDOM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-19 05:47:19 · answer #2 · answered by wilsonhutchison04 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first off ewwwwww, if you know that he hasn't used condoms with his other girlfriends you should be using them.
Second if he lives alone or if it was in his personnel space then it probably is his and the girl he had in there was smart enough to make him use one.
If she refused to do it without a condom and he really wanted it then he is going to use it.
2006-10-19 05:48:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all where did you find it, was it used?? It might be his it might not, It all depends upon the circumstances...if it was his he might have wanted to protect himself from std's since he is currnetly involved with you or an unwanted pregnancy of someone he doesn't know...but he might be telling you the truth and how do you know for sure if he never used a condom with his ex's, his word or have they told you this?
2006-10-19 05:46:15 · answer #4 · answered by - 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is all up to you. If you suspect him cheating on you then he probably is, but is there any reason for him to. I think you should always wear a condom anyways. I can not tell you if he is lying or not, I really don't know the whole situation. GOOD LUCK.
2006-10-19 05:45:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The bigger question is - why isn't he using a condom?
He has had multiple partners with unprotected sex which puts him and you at a high risk for std's.
You both need to get tested.
2006-10-19 05:45:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, where did you find it? if it was in his wallet then duh! is so his, but if you found it next to his computer it might be his pals that was goin to use it with some chick in his room, or his brother, even sister. I mean it really depends were you fond it, and I HOPE YOUR GETHING YOURSELF CHECKED FOR STD'S, thats real bad that he has never used condomes with his girlfriends, do you know how nasty guys and girls are ? I dont think you should let anyone hitt it raw doggy if you guys arent at least living together, seriosly.
2006-10-19 05:48:57 · answer #7 · answered by I think of you I touch Myself 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He problem knew the girl was a hoe or a hooker. When there is a knowledge of a sickness and potential injury of the penis a man will sack it because sex is sex. Guys are always horny so just be glad he didn't give you aids or some other std. how would you explain to your family that he got you sick?
2006-10-19 05:57:21 · answer #8 · answered by Eddie D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is cheating he might just have enough respect for you that he don't want to pass anything to you! Still sounds like he is cheating. Where was the condom found?
2006-10-19 05:48:14 · answer #9 · answered by Blondie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl what the hell are you doing not using one in the first place! How long have you know this guy. Does he have room mates? does he have a lot of friends that use he place has a motel?
2006-10-19 05:45:42 · answer #10 · answered by Plus Size Panther! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a little gross that hes got someone else's used condom laying around.
eww.
i dont really get it though, do u think hes cheating on u?
idk...i mean, if u have any suspicions at all, you shouldnt just forget about them. find out whose he says it is and ask them.
2006-10-19 05:46:19 · answer #11 · answered by emily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋