I met this girl I’ve been talking to her for three weeks now , I like her but now I’m starting to see a side of her that I don’t really like, I try to tell her once but she just didn’t get the picture. I many negative attributes in her character she is egocentric, materialistic, overzealous go-digger.
2006-10-19 05:32:57 · 15 answers · asked by rudy t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You find a THREE attributes about her you like... You sit her down and say, "Look I like this about you..." However, the following attributes, I don't like...." Giving examples...
She may be totally oblivious to these things and some will go away with maturity and development. You need to determine if you can live with some of it until she gets over it... Is this relationship worth a little additional time to see if she develops into a mature woman? If you see growth, there is hope.
If there is no growth, then you're going to see it until something happens. In which case, you are right to get out of the relationship now.
2006-10-19 05:46:03 · answer #1 · answered by James B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just drift apart. Come up with reasons why your busy all the time. Don't see her anymore. She'll move on without you after a couple weeks. If she doesn't than you can tell her that you don't think it's fair to her that your busy all the time. That maybe you shouldn't be in a commited relationship, because you wouldn't want to hold her back. It's how I always did it. It takes practice but it becomes full proof after the first couple of times. Then she can't say you were a jerk.
2006-10-19 05:40:40 · answer #2 · answered by nautical_star8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, if breaking up was easy to do there would be fewer bitter men and women in the world. Just flat out tell her that you strongly feel that it wasn't meant to be. Do it quickley, and if you don't have the guts to say it to her face either leave a message on her IM, her phone, or write a note. Breaking up is never easy, but you don't wanna face any chicks scorn if you don't do it ASAP. Good luck.
2006-10-19 05:36:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you need to know whether you want to maintain a relationship with her. If you don't, then whats the delay. tell her all the things she is and be done with it. But if you want to remain friends or whatever then you are going to have to again say those things but try to be polite while doing so...either way you will get the desired results but one way will if she wants to stay in contact with you...the first way will obviously be a little more harsh. My experience tells me that being too subtle is like not saying anything at all.
2006-10-19 05:38:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her is be real and fun but it hasn't been real fun. You are a man so step up or you will end up one day thinking how did we end up together..I got stoned one day and when I finally sobered up I had been married for 8 years. Get out as fast as you can.
2006-10-19 05:38:35 · answer #5 · answered by Eddie D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need to tell her straight up. No matter what you say you will always looks like a jerk, because you don't want to be with her. You just need to tell her. good luck.
2006-10-19 05:36:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she doesn't even sound like someone I would want to be friends with at all. just be very cool in your dealings with her she will get the message sooner or later. It is much classier than just blurting it out
2006-10-19 05:37:55 · answer #7 · answered by sosueme534 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let her know that the relationship is not working out..."its best if we stop seeing each other" and tell her you enjoyed the time you spent with her. its best to end it as soon as possible and not lead her on...from you description of her she will probably not take it well. good luck
2006-10-19 05:35:38 · answer #8 · answered by Suzy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop it like it's hot. No need to put yourself in that kind of misery. Love is a triangle, where you someone likes you, but you like someone else, who then likes someone else. Break up with her on Myspace.com. It's a trend nowadays,
2006-10-19 05:37:37 · answer #9 · answered by seelee916 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just come out and tell her that you don't like her. Point blank, "in your face" type of talk.
2006-10-19 05:41:44 · answer #10 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋