Why is he ignoring her now?

Question

trying to help my friend: she is in a long distance relationship. her: 42, single, available. him: 44, supposedly going thru a divorce. he has 1 - 7 y, girl. he used to call daily, came to visit several times. in last few months, calls less & less. in last month - 1 call. emailed him that I was hurt, disappointed, insulted. At this point, all I want from him is to tell me the truth about why he doesn't call me anymore. Your thoughts?

Answer 1

He probably lost interest or met someone new. The worst thing you can do is run after him now. Dont get stuck in wanting to hear the truth. You will never get the truth from him.

Answer 2

Yes, he either lied about going through the divorce and is actually married and got caught, and has told his wife that he will break it off or maybe he changed his mind about getting divorced.

It is never good to date a guy going through a divorce, unless you have been to his place and seen he is own his own and been there when he gets his visitation days with his child, otherwise it is usually just a lie that married men make up until they are caught and then they do everything in their power to keep the wife happy before they go back to what they were doing, or they get divorced after they are caught and lose everything they have to their wife.

It is better to find one that has been divorced already and already has visitation and things set up between him and his ex. Never good to date them until they are completely divorced.

Answer 3

Probably he don't want another commitment or he comeback with his ex......or he knew somebody else just call him and ask him to be honest and don't waste your time.....look somebody available.

Answer 4

He is uhhhhhhhh back with his wife and family you know a family does require time