would you meet some one from the internet if you have been speaking with them for a while and phone contact was frequent and they was willing to fly from america to the uk?
2006-10-19 05:23:26 · 20 answers · asked by lucky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Yes..I have heard dozens of stories about romance on the internet lets face it this is a wave of the future because so many people are online now..and are lonely..my neice talked with someone for months talked on phone... now they engaged..my best girlfriend met her soulmate talked for 2 years b4 they met and then by phone for about 6 months..and then finally met at a halfway point..she said it was like rockets red glare bursting in air meeting him..and they may even get married ..traveling to uk..i dont know ...just make sure u have talked over the phone and bring a lady friend with u to meet him..i say go for it..life is much to short for us all... live while u can...my mom use to say "Life is for the Living"..so please with the nuclear threats going on the turmoil in are world who really knows how much time their is..please go for it!!... speak over the phone for about a month and then convince a lady friend to take the trip with u and Go For It...dont listen to others about what is negative..live your own life and be happy ..I will pray it works out and is dream come true good luck!
2006-10-19 05:42:58 · answer #1 · answered by dreamy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you know what life is very short, and it isn't a dress rehearsal. Gut instincts... what do they tell you, I met my partner 24mths ago off the Internet and had 24mths of happiness.... If you go ahead, do a few things ask for details a mug they are holding or something around them and get them to send a pic of them and it instantly.... obviously you don;t explain too heavily what you are doing. Then if you are so sure you want this to happen, think about staying arrangements whilst they are here, how you will meet, public places, always tell a friend where and when and what time etc ....
Good Luck and Go make your own show. x
2006-10-19 05:34:24 · answer #2 · answered by Girl of Spirit 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with meeting anyone off the internet... as long as you know them. Just be careful because that's a long way to fly for just a visit... if he wants to start a relationship you have to think about how that would work and so on and so forth.
Goodluck
2006-10-19 05:26:14 · answer #3 · answered by Adam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have met about 10 guys off the internet after talking to them frequently, its not different from meeting someone in a bar
2006-10-19 05:26:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they will come that far to meet you - do it - have someone with you when you meet for safety reasons - but the same guy could have met you in the grocery store.... never know where people are from, just because he lives far away doesnt make him anymore of a threat than a local person you dont know.. take precautions as you would when you 1st meet anyone... and be flattered he want to meet you that bad - he could meet girls where he lives as well, but he chosses you - congrats
2006-10-19 05:29:38 · answer #5 · answered by beachnut222000 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was on AOL one night, reading a news article. I was 'rudely' interrupted by some guy who I met two weeks later, began going steady about a month after, and was married to 1.5 years later. We've been married 3 nears next month :) Good luck!
2006-10-19 05:27:10 · answer #6 · answered by Shayna 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, already have. best decision i have ever made. chatted for 2 years. talked online, with the mic, talked on the telephone 3 times a month. wrote regular mail, sent shirts, underwear, received them too ! it was so much fun. and it still is.
trust your heart/instinct. be careful. good men online, good men in real life. bad men are in both....so be careful. take your time.
have him checked out if you need to. my brother did that for me. didnt know until after he did it, but glad he did. it reassured me a great deal.
ask a lot of questions. have him scan his ID and email it to you- photo ID.
my husband (that i met online) sent me pictures of himself as a toddler, so cute, and his family.
get details about him, his job, his home. you have every right to ask these questions. if he avoids...something is up. if he is being true to you, he wont hold back.
have fun - and get the info first.
dont be alone in a strange country with a stranger. get his ID, and background info.
i got all of my husbands the first month. he already wanted to marry me. he sent me school stuff, from his tests, sent me several letters from his boss, his boss even called me. his sister wrote to me, and a few of his friends.
have fun!!
2006-10-19 05:53:59 · answer #7 · answered by dragonsclaw27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes if you believe you know them well enough. I met my husband on the net. We talked on the net for a year and phone calls. Then we met. Be sure you know this guy well enough and trust who he is. If anything he has said makes you feel something might not be right then don't. Trust your gut.
2006-10-19 05:29:36 · answer #8 · answered by lynx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm married to my internet love. And it depends on how long and how deeply you have been in contact with eachother.
2006-10-19 05:35:06 · answer #9 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have no problems meeting from the internet ... but i'd be suspicious of someone willing to travel that far. it could be completely innocent but i'd be hesitant/cautious.
2006-10-19 05:26:14 · answer #10 · answered by sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋