She seems really sad and her mind is thinking too much. Which causes stress on me, because I don't know what to do to keep her happy. She is done in December but I hate seeing her like this
2006-10-19 05:19:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Reassure her that she will be out of school soon and you will be together. In the meantime, send her a "pick me up" gift. A nice thinking of you card, flowers, etc. will make her day.
2006-10-19 05:22:32 · answer #1 · answered by scarlettohara1861 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to find out exactly why she's sad. Is she worried about what will happen in December? Does she need help with specific things you used to do for her? Does she need friends? Maybe the key is just more visits and phone calls--and maybe planning how great things will be when you can be together.
2006-10-19 05:36:29 · answer #2 · answered by Stephanie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call,write,email,as much as possible! Reassure her you are not doing anything wrong,and that December is only 6 weeks or so away :) Maybe show up for a surprise weekend too
2006-10-19 05:23:41 · answer #3 · answered by greeneyedgoddess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should send things to her. For instance, send flowers and say just because its Wednesday. send chocolate with a sweet remark. take a weekend off and take the trip down to her college unannounced surprise her with a romantic dinner or something exhilarating that she would enjoy doing. but if she has a roommate you should ask the roommate what weekend you know she doesn't have tests or papers so that she wont be to swamped to go
2006-10-19 05:26:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 hours is just that space....here are a few suggestions....you can still woo a girl we love that
1. Get a web cam and mic to use on Yahoo Messenger
2. Set up a "date night"
3. Talk gently to her ask her things as if she were right there with you as in what did you have for lunch, what color socks are you wearing etc...small but important ways to connect.
4. Have her get comfortable sit back feet up covered with a blanket have her watch you as you read her poetry
5. Talk honestly to her express your feelings
6. Tell her to put her hand on the computer screen close her eyes and breath deeply then ask her "Baby can you feel me, smell me I'm right here waiting for you"
My man is not close to me but when he does these things....I can feel him in my heart all day long.
Remember ....it's not "IF" you are going to be together it's "When"
2006-10-19 05:29:32 · answer #5 · answered by dylansmere 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first off, she should be concentrating on school. That's why she's there. "thinking too much" about what??
It's only until December? Shoot that's only 2 months away. Quit worrying. She'll be back before you know it.
2006-10-19 05:26:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just make sure to always be supportive and there for her. I don't know why she is unhappy... do you? Try to find out and let her know that you are her support and that you care about her. Always call when you are supposed to. Always come through for her when you are supposed to. Maybe send her a tin of chocolates and a stuffed animal or something cute to cheer her up.
2006-10-19 05:22:11 · answer #7 · answered by Stephanie S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should send her love notes or call her when she will not answer the phone and leave her a message where you sing or something. She'll love your thoughtfulness. Call her and be there for her. Be careful not to judge. Good luck
2006-10-19 05:30:44 · answer #8 · answered by 1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
-suprise visits/planned visits
-lots of phone calls and reassurance
-flowers occasionally
-weekend get aways
-long, sweet emails
-make sure you are there for her on an emotional level and let her know how good she is doing
-etc, etc, etc.
2006-10-19 05:25:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her know you love her and want to be with her, decemeber is not that far away..she's probably feeling lonely and misses you. maybe she could hang out with friends or something
2006-10-19 05:23:01 · answer #10 · answered by S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋