me and this guy ive known for 10 years where hangin out the other night and we were a little tipsy and one thing led to another and the next morning we woke up in bed together.... he has AIDs. should i be mad??????????
2006-10-19 05:17:36 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow. You must not really care about yourself...
2006-10-19 05:19:31 · answer #1 · answered by inlovewow 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I understand that you are most likely very scared right now. But, you did make your own desicion to sleep with him. If you did. You never said that you did, you just said that you woke up in bed together. In that case, I would say that no, you should not be mad if you didn't do anything sexual together. You can't catch aids by sharing a bed to *sleep* in.
If you did have sex with him, and you already knew that he had aids, then, no, unless you want to be mad and angry with yourself. But, as far as being angry with him, you did what you wanted to do. Blessed be......................
2006-10-19 12:22:32 · answer #2 · answered by shy&gental 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that would depend on whether you used a condom. If you did have unprotected sex...then yes I'd be furious, with MYSELF first and him second and suggest you get yourself tested and follow the schedule for the aids testing, now, 6 months from now, etc until you get either a positive yes you have it or a no you don't
2006-10-19 12:22:28 · answer #3 · answered by ne_patriots2005 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, now if you knew that beforehand...
oh never mind, you're gonna get flamed on this question anyway.
Girl, you really need to..crap, I cant finish that one, either.
how about this: Good luck with that, and you need to seek assistance from a medical professional...that includes taking a HIV test now, a month from now and 6 months from now. HIV can show up 10 years down the road. Again, good luck.
2006-10-19 12:22:22 · answer #4 · answered by Munya Says: DUH! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont think you should be mad.
he has aids, i would think that he is pretty embarrased about it...and if he does have the balls to tell you, he was too drunk to even noticed that he hasnt told you.
you shouldnt be mad. it is an action from the both of you. just go to the doctors and see if he passed that sh!t to you. and go hurry cuz that is pretty bad.
did you know that he even had aids?
having sex with someone that you know have aids before all of this is like commiting suicide...
2006-10-19 12:23:04 · answer #5 · answered by stefani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you should be mad at yourself. "we were a little tipsy and one thing led to another" you were full aware of what was going on.
Get tested.
2006-10-19 12:21:32 · answer #6 · answered by Bubbles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm...you've known him for 10years...so you clearly knew he had aids before you did anything with him....nope you cant be mad. You can be mad @ yourself for making a stupid decision....did you even sleep together? maybe you didnt have sex, if he cares about you maybe he didnt do anything serious with you, maybe you just made out and did other things, maybe you threw up on yourself and he took care of you.....get tested before you start flippin out.
2006-10-19 12:21:22 · answer #7 · answered by Lek 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you shouldn't because you allowed it to happen just as much as he did! you can't blame him for the whole thing because like you said you 2 were impaired! Go get yourself tested and try not to make that mistake again!
2006-10-19 12:22:34 · answer #8 · answered by Sarah M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you kind of lost control of yourself it seems but he could have let you know before the sparks flew. You are both kind of guilty but with any luck you didn't contract it and you better get checked and let them know that this guy is out boinging chics with that and dosen't let them know ahead of time
2006-10-19 12:21:10 · answer #9 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are so off my New Year's party list!
Get tested… pray to God… and never tell your boyfriend or husband if the test comes back negative.
Oh yeah, and… well, nevermind.
2006-10-19 12:21:10 · answer #10 · answered by diagofaldi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is a slight chance you won't get infected.
wait three months then make an appointment for a blood test.
2006-10-19 12:23:18 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋