2006-10-19 05:16:14 · 26 answers · asked by Whoagirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is possible for a man to love two women. But there is no such thing as he loving them equally.The catch is he usually prefers one over the other and if he was given that ultimate ultimatum to choose, he will choose the one he favors. Also, if it was an affair situation, his love for the one he cheated on dwindled to the degree that freed his conscious enough to make the choice to cheat. To have an affair long enough to develop a relationship further denotes a dissatisfaction in the relationship. Usually if a man comes up with the whole "I love both of you" trick, it more than likely means you both found out about the situation. Some use that tactic to see which of the women actually love him enough to hold on to his cheating behind. True to form this trick works well because one or both will stick around. Why? Because the first woman feels more vested in relationship and isn't about to "lose" to the other woman. The new one thinks, I am not going to let go because he's not happy there anyway and he is on the brink of leaving for good so I will stick it out and wait. Who loses in the end? The women, if they decide to stay never gets the full committed monogamous wonderful relationship they deserve. Never fall for the I love two women trap.
2006-10-19 05:47:10 · answer #1 · answered by annesome 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, that depends if you as a woman can accept that he is love w-u and another woman. Men and Women does this all the time, it doesn't mean that it's right. If you really love someone let them go and if they come back alone (meaning not loving someone else) then you two were meant to be. However, if he don't then he wasn't never yours to begin with. Good luck ;)
2006-10-19 05:26:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is It possible, Yes.
Although, it is very difficult because how do you divide evenly up your time between both woman fairly. There will always be 1 who believes she needs/deserves/demands more time or isn't getting as much time as the other. And if you throw small kids into the mix, it can become emotionally devastating to everyone. Personally, I believe while love is vast and endless, you should allow one person to roam in this part of your life, and not multiple people.
2006-10-19 05:21:34 · answer #3 · answered by hockeytwn09 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly i do no longer have faith that's obtainable for a guy to be in love in any respect. specific, a guy might nicely have an interest in any form of ladies folk, he might nicely be aroused by way of them and lusting after all of them yet being in love is a bunch of baloney, a non everlasting state of insanity that a guy can adventure and it in lots of cases would not final long if he's basic. a guy can go with to love and be in a loving dating with a woman, yet for men that's a call no longer something one "falls" in an out of. Now if this woman he's in a loving dating with has no subject with the guy having a similar form of dating with yet another woman on a similar time, i've got faith the guy has the technique of being loving to the two. If the two companion has a topic with no longer being "the only and basically" then the guy can't probably be in a loving dating with greater effective than one individual considering love implies respecting her desires.
2016-11-23 19:29:16 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I am a woman and I was in love with two men at the same time. It was the most frustrating, hurtful time of my life. It is possible and extremely difficult.
2006-10-19 05:20:46 · answer #5 · answered by loladoreen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep have you ever cared for two guys before I think when one can't give u what you need then you use one to complete the other, but after while you have to chose because a relationship is between one man and one woman
2006-10-19 05:20:38 · answer #6 · answered by jkfranklin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I knoW i can not be in love with two men so I think in my eyes the answer is no.
2006-10-19 05:18:28 · answer #7 · answered by R C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you actually serious ? As a man, I am quite capable of "loving" a group of women!
2006-10-19 05:19:16 · answer #8 · answered by Falling to pieces 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Of course. There is nothing in our DNA or brains that restricts love to only 1. That is an artificial, societal restriction.
2006-10-19 05:19:15 · answer #9 · answered by idontgetit 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes a man can love two women. just can't "be in love" with two women! big difference.....no man's heart is big enough to do such a thing and besides no man is just thinking with his heart if u catch my drift......
2006-10-19 05:19:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋