i can understand from a personality type of view but when it comes to physical attraction.
do they actually find each other attractive sexually?
what makes them get together in the first place
2006-10-19 05:04:59 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
'Cos the pretty people tend to wanna be with pretty people so, therefore leaving the ugly ones: what choice do ugly people have but to see people they consider to be as attractive as themselves. as for what makes them get together? everyone likes sex so in a way, i guess it could be considered to be desperation? the alternative (and more grown up reason) could be that they don't care what their partner looks like: as long they are happy and in love, it makes no difference what they look like. In my experience, prettier people than me are just shallow anyway: not all: but a lot!
2006-10-19 05:48:06 · answer #1 · answered by Ollie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's all in the kiss!!! And the way you make a person feel, but I don't believe that statement is entirely true. Define ugly? Even the most attractive person can become ugly if they don't have a personality, or are vain, patronising, Arrogant, and rude. Some people tell themselves they are cuz others say it, and end up with no self confidence, therefore believing that that they don't belong with someone more good looking than them. I have seen a lot of unlikely couples and thought myself what are they doing together, and it's mean and shallow and we're all guilty of it. At the end of the day fat, thin , ugly, gorgeous, everyone deserves some happiness, who are we to judge.
2006-10-19 05:34:52 · answer #2 · answered by crazychicklisieloo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people that get on very well as a couple normally mirror each other in some physical way. The love of my life - didn't work out unfortunately - we looked alike, but not enough for us to be mistaken for brother and sister. Same colour curly hair, same colour eyes, both tall etc and had similar mannerisms.
If you look at close couples you know I bet you will find similar physical features. (e.g check out Brat Pitt and Angelina Jolie).
So it stands to reason that if we are attracted physiologically to people with similar features, beautiful people will be attracted to other beautiful people and ugly people will be attracted to other ugly people.
Having said all that, true beauty comes from within, and just because someone may not meet the criteria of being aesthetically pleasing to the eye as society dictates, there are plenty of unconventional, beautiful people everywhere who's lights shine bright!!!
2006-10-19 05:18:57 · answer #3 · answered by Marlene 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That isn't necessarily true, I've seen some good looking people with unattractive mates.
When the lights go out there will be no attraction its all in the feeling.
You never know who you will end up loving for the rest of your life. Looks can be important but they are not the most important thing to begin and stay in a relationship.
2006-10-19 05:14:49 · answer #4 · answered by Bubbles 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most people tend to find a mate that they feel comfortable being themselves with. If someone feels that they are not as attractive as someone else, they typically will not have a lot of interaction with the other person. It is the same with everyone, you try to find someone that you are comfortable with. It really has nothing to do with someone being "ugly". That is your opinion of a person, but everyone finds different things beautiful. It is kind of like the saying, "one person's trash is another person's treasure." Just because someone doesn't find another person attractive, doesn't mean that everyone feels that same way.
2006-10-19 05:12:59 · answer #5 · answered by ariley0320 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let me start by asking you back why do ugly women get married. Take this from me: Beauty is a thing of the mind, yu could be going out with someone who is beautiful with repulsive attitude and character. By the time you start looking beyond the physical that is when you go for the real substance. Don't judge a book by its cover.
2006-10-19 05:17:27 · answer #6 · answered by sweetlips 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not everyone is superficial in that they only date people for looks. It is a known fact that if a woman is not physically attracted to a man, but gets to know him and find his personality intriguing and attractive, she will find him more physically attractive. Us women think this way becuase we know what counts.
2006-10-19 05:08:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder - anyway, are you speaking from experience or something? Another thing, does anyone genuinely look in the mirror and think "God, you are ugly" - probably not that many. Easier to see ugliness in others than ourselves I would think.
2006-10-19 05:09:18 · answer #8 · answered by Ally 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ugly in what way......???? I think beauty is in the eye of the beholder..... And no I am not ugly in the looks department I just think your heart is more important than the way you look....
2006-10-19 05:09:26 · answer #9 · answered by bty53404242 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Define ugly?
2006-10-19 05:07:34 · answer #10 · answered by sheeny 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋