i am pregnant and i dont really want any sexual actions from my boyfriend... he kisses me nonstop sometimes and i just wanna screa STOP!! but when i want it i want it but when he wants it i dont..i cant help it what should i do? i dont wanna make him feel bad or insecure i just dont feel the mood that much?
2006-10-19 05:04:52 · 12 answers · asked by â?¥CURiOUSâ?¥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just explain how your feeling with your boyfriend. Sounds like a loving guy and I'm certain he will understand that you don't feel like it right now. Your carrying his child so I'm certain he would be both understanding and compassionate with your wishes. But if you don't communicate to him he won't be aware and may think that he's turning you off or something. So please do explain with him, you'll both feel better after an honest conversation. Hope you have a happy and healthy baby.
2006-10-19 05:09:39 · answer #1 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
DOn't listen to these people...don't let him have an affair or date other women or bang somone else..that's not right...it' shis kid too he should understand...
Talk to him ..tell him that it's not him...that it's just hormones because of the baby tell him you love him very much and that he is the best..but you cant help feeling that way...tha'ts not his fault...
Make sure though even though you are not having sex that you still show him that you love him so he wont feel like a BIG mistake..
ANd if you do listen to these other people and let him date others that will be a problem b/c then what if he wont want you anymore when the baby comes out? so you should just really talk to him and make him feel good about himself.... and sex is not the only way to sho whim you love him..nice compliments, nice talks, ...
good luck!
2006-10-19 05:12:53 · answer #2 · answered by Cutie77 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you must be pregnant with a little girl. Usually when your pregnant a lot of your hormones can be drained by the baby to even out their levels of estrogin and in any case they take yours and leave you...well depleated. i suffered the same problem. i went from nympho to nun. Just know one thing ... the good news is it will be ok and bad news its going to take awhile to regenerate naturally. hold on..Be strong and stop fighting,...believe me it doesn't do any good.
2006-10-19 05:09:59 · answer #3 · answered by mcshankel04 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Its the hormones mama.....its normal. and if he doesnt know why your acting like that, than you should explain to him that, thats what happens sometimes when a women gets pregnant. its not you fault and i know EXACTLY what you are going through......lol
2006-10-19 05:08:52 · answer #4 · answered by luvbuggy!!!! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to explain to him how you feel. But keep in mind how he feels also. Try to work together on this. Don't let it mess up your relationship. Be honest.
2006-10-19 05:07:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is the hormones. This is normal during pregnancy. You will have to give in once in awhile and so will he.
2006-10-19 05:10:35 · answer #6 · answered by Suesan W 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well my friend is the same way but sometimes she gives in just not as much as he wants it but she doesnt want him to go elsewhere and get it so she gives it to him.
2006-10-19 05:09:36 · answer #7 · answered by WeFlyHigh 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give him the okay to go bang other chicks until you pop out the kid.
2006-10-19 05:06:54 · answer #8 · answered by Offended? Aww Have a Cookie! 5 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Don't worry, b4 too long he will learn to find it somewhere else and he will leave you alone
2006-10-19 05:07:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Its hormones...he should understand.
2006-10-19 05:07:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋