shes at home all day im out earning the money.
so get the dinner cooked all you lazy new style women.
these ladies nowadays want to sit on there *** all day watching holby city repeats.
and they do nothing but get fat and lazy.
2006-10-19 05:03:14 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Food & Drink ➔ Other - Food & Drink
So Right
2006-10-19 05:05:17 · answer #1 · answered by Scott D 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Humm, well before I rip you a new one, I was wondering if there are children involved? Does she stay at home and raise your children? If that is the case, then step off, grow up and switch places with her for a week - 5 days, and you will then realize that she is anything but lazy.
IF there are no kids involved....... well, I guess I would be talking to her, asking her why she doesn't get a job full/part time. Have you talked to her about dinner? Did you let her know that you would really appreciate coming home to dinner being ready (or almost ready)? Or are you just assuming that it's her duty to do so?
2006-10-19 05:07:09 · answer #2 · answered by addicted2stamping 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes. The wife has indeed "gotta go". Away from you.
Nah, if she aint working, is not being a full time mum and is just sittn around watchn the telly while u earn the money to pay the bills then she should be contributing best she can to your home. In which case she could make you your dinner.
Tsk, I believe this is the first time i may of ever agreed with a man. I feel dirty.
2006-10-19 05:16:29 · answer #3 · answered by theblaney 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you and I'm a woman! I work 40 hours take care of two children and I still make dinner every night. But my boyfriend contributes also, he works close to 65 hours a week, and he pays 75% of the bills. He helps and takes out the trash, helps fold clothes which I hate to do, and pays for any entertainment and a lot more. The thing is that we are on the same page in our relationship and THATS what makes it work. You both have to agree with where that is for you both. It differs with each couple.
Best advice talk, don't yell at her, call her names, discuss what you want, what you expect and listen to the same from her. And then here's the hard part! Compromise.
Remember why you married her. No relationship is perfect and marriage is like a business wrapped up with emotion, with two people, that are different, to make it work you both will have to work on it to have success!
2006-10-19 05:21:04 · answer #4 · answered by mudd_grip 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you SHOULD have worked that out BEFORE you got married !! An agreement.
I was lucky, and had a Mom who taught her 4 boys to cook because she had no daughters... AND a Mom who cooked well.
My ex-wife was very similar... I spent the day flying with the Navy, would come home and she'd be "oh I just couldn't think of anything" !! I spent weeks teaching her to cook... plan menu's, and prepare... She never learned.
Now I still work all day, but come home and cook... but do most of my prep-work on Saturday after market... make sauces start marinades, and prepare veggies while watching football...
Then my dinner takes 20-30 minutes after I come through the door...
2006-10-19 05:12:04 · answer #5 · answered by mariner31 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I tell you what I'd tell you not to bother coming home with an attitude like that!!! Change your door mate the cooks on strike !!! You have a bad assumption of women!! Hope she dumps you and you never find another woman!!!
So what if we watch TV all day you have to pay for you TV license so we have to make sure that we getting our money's worth after all you earn it!!! We live in the year 2000 not the 1700!!
2006-10-19 06:11:43 · answer #6 · answered by Lisa P 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel that if your wife doesn't work she better contribute! My hubby and I both work full time and I go to school, so we split duties but if you are working and she isn't she should attend to housework and cooking. Women that are stayat home wives and mothers should treat their homes and children like their jobs and dp their best to excel in their "workplace". I would expext the same from a stay at home husband or father!
2006-10-19 05:12:39 · answer #7 · answered by purple_artemis00 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boy works all day and and i am at home with the little one all day but i agree the dinner should be on the table as long as im finished my first job and my number one priority my child!
2006-10-19 05:13:26 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if that is the case then the my answer is this:
she definitely should have dinner ready and if she doesn't want to cook and just watch television then your marriage is already in trouble. talk to her in a calm, sweet, and understanding way but be direct about what you think their responsibilities are. if she blows you off, calls you names, or just plain disagrees then the only choice you have is to call it a day because it will happen sooner than later. be sure to listen to her concerns. do not cuss her, call her names, or anything emotionally charged.
good luck!
2006-10-19 08:58:03 · answer #9 · answered by lou 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well do u have kids? if you have kids then she's working too..hello
if she does not then yes she should be cooking dinner every night.I have two kids and i am a stay home mom and i put dinner on the table every night! my husband works hard too. how hard is it to make dinner if you don't have kids...and why is she not working? tell her to go get a job.
2006-10-19 05:37:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, do you have children with this woman? If you do, help her out and make dinner for the family. It's the least you could do. If you don't have kids, this is something that you should talk to your wife about.
2006-10-19 05:16:11 · answer #11 · answered by Chef Orville 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋