i think my boyfriend is cheating and i dont know what i should do can ya'll help me?

Question

We've been together for 9 months and every thing was cool until he started a new school, so i wanta know what going on, my friends say he aint cheatin but i have a feeling he is. i trust him i just t don't trust the people he chills wit

Answer 1

Just taslk to him about your feelings that you rhink he's cheating if he says no he;s not cheating just believe him until you actual see him with another girl

Answer 2

Ok. I'm guessing you're both young so I'm going to have to think back...lol. I learned a long time ago, when you have something fulfilling going on in your world you don't have time to think about what someone else is doing when they're not around you. Unless he's shown you something to make you believe he's cheating on you, I wouldn't sweat it. If you persist and he's really not doing it then that will cause another problem between you. If there is however, something that has been done or said to make you think there was a problem, I'd discuss it with him (not accuse him) and explain your issue. Every relationship needs communication if it's going to last. As far as trusting him but not is friends, I can't stand when I hear people say that. Doesn't your boyfriend have a mind of his own? Is he a follower? That's a whole other issue right there. Does he do what they do in other aspects of his life? While it's true that your friends are a reflection of you, they can't make him do anything he doesn't want to do anyway. Trust, if he's going to do something that disrespects your relationship, he's going to do it if he's with them or not.

Answer 3

you have posted similar questions.
I think you need to resolve your control issues.
It's just not possible to keep another human being under your thumb in the way that you seem to want, so you have to learn to let go a little and accept the fact that your constant suspicion is detracting from your relationship and your own life.
Having friends outside the relationship doesn't mean he intends to cheat.

Answer 4

what you dont want to do is go up to him and ask him because he is going to be like "oh what, you dont trust me"? and that could end your relationship, if you say that you trust him then it's nothing to worry about and if he really likes you he will cheat on you no matter how his friends are

Answer 5

The first thing you should do is make sure he is cheating you, after that take a desition by yourself of breaking up or be with him even if he did that.

I personally would break up in case that happens because It wouldnt get that picture out of my head..

Answer 6

if you truely trusted him you wouldnt have to ask. in your heart you know that something doesnt feel right. if his patterns has changed, he talks to you different, your time with his is limited, and something in your heart tells you something is all wrong, then you need to take heed to what your heart tells you. maybe you cannot handle a long distance relationship. If you cant then you simply have to let him go if it is meant to be yall will be together again

Answer 7

honestly, u just having a feeling he's cheating is not good enough proof that he is. u could be wrong. i suggest u start trusting him more or if u still feel he's cheating, find more proof before u make any conclusions

Answer 8

ask him is he cheating. If he answers no then you have your answer. You can't judge your man by who he hangs with. You should trust him until he gives you reason not to. Until then just chill.

Answer 9

You do not trust him if you think that he is cheating. Talk to him about it. That is the best i can tell you.

Answer 10

Your statement isn't true. You either trust him 100% or you don't trust him. Until you have proof, usually in this country folks are innocent until proven guilty.....usually. Good luck.