My first bf was this really nice guy and when we broke up he said that he still wanted to talk. (BS I know) So I called him about three weeks later and asked how was him moving in to college. He never called. So I text him later telling him that my computer was up and gave him my email. No response. Now its be about four months and still no word. Im not one of those girls that leaves a story to end like that. Im thinking of calling him and asking if he is still alive and letting him know that I'm not upset with the break up but just how he lied and handled it. I know that he is not a bad person but I feel that he might not want to talk to me because of some stupid fear that he might hold me back from meeting someone that will call me. But this summer a friend and me are going to go to his school becasue I'm thinking of transerfing there and she is thinking of going there next year and I would really like to know if it a good school and if he thinks that I could handle. What you think.
2006-10-19 04:32:10 · 9 answers · asked by Moon Girl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No. Don't call. The best thing you can do is maintain your dignity and let him believe you're completely over him. You shouldn't care if he thinks you can handle the school--you can decide for yourself. And I'd suggest looking around at other schools too--it's never fun to feel like you chose your school for a guy--especially one you don't end up with.
2006-10-19 05:31:09 · answer #1 · answered by Stephanie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is in the past should stay there. What you need to focus on is how to learn from this and make sure to avoid a similar situation in the future. I did what youo are thinking of doing and no good came from it. All it did was allow me to produce more drama over a very common situation.
2006-10-19 11:53:42 · answer #2 · answered by clrlou 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're obsessed with this guy and should just leave him alone. I think maybe you should really look at your options for schools also...how will you be able to concentrate on your studies when you stalking your ex?
2006-10-19 11:36:50 · answer #3 · answered by ohsouncertain 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should leave it alone. An ex is an ex. Just move on....there are plenty of great guys out there. Good luck.
2006-10-19 11:38:06 · answer #4 · answered by Jess Allene 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should ask someone else about the school. Time to move on. He doesn't dig you anymore. Take a hint.
2006-10-19 11:37:36 · answer #5 · answered by Matthew L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to let him go. If he wanted to keep in touch, he would...he's not afraid of "holding you back" but has moved on...you need to do the same.
2006-10-19 11:36:32 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave it alone and ask someone else about the school.
2006-10-19 11:36:45 · answer #7 · answered by salter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
An ex is an ex, leave it alone.
2006-10-19 11:36:22 · answer #8 · answered by buldawg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk away, he's not worth the effort.
2006-10-19 11:47:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋