Everytime i think im going explain to her (in person) why i dont think we are right together my throat goes dry and my heart tells me no...although my head says break it
I just cudnt possibly upset her...so what do i do? act like a moron and hope she dumps me instead?
2006-10-19 04:24:59 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no, do NOT act like a moron and hope she dumps you.... i've had this done to me plenty, and trust me, it hurts worse
2006-10-19 04:26:40 · answer #1 · answered by ooh baby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then don't completely break it off with him at 1st. If you just feel smothered tell him that you think you two should take a break from each other for a little while. You could just be feeling the effects of him being around you too often.
2016-05-22 02:01:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Interesting...... I'm sure many others are facing the same problem???? Follow your head, the heart cannot be trusted.
Be honest.... and don't act like a moron..... just tell her you are not interested. She WILL get over it.
Now I've got to go or I'm going to be very late!
2006-10-19 04:38:37 · answer #3 · answered by Hobnobs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the truth and nothing but the truth. If you dont love her anymore, its better to confront her about it in a nice way, just be prepared of her reaction and what not because its not really easy for us women to be dumped by our loved one. Yeah especially when we love that person who dumped us. Well, thats the way it is. If you are not happy and she hopes for your happiness, she would accept it. Just follow your heart before your mind.
2006-10-19 04:30:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No Ryan. I think you should tell her now. It'd save her a LOT more heartache finding out now. Please don't allow her think all is well between you guys and then drop the bomb on her at a later time when she has a lot more invested in what she thinks is a relationship. Basically, I think you'd be better off telling her now. It's the right thing to do.
2006-10-19 04:29:21 · answer #5 · answered by monie0078 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you suffering from inferiority complex or low self-esteem. you should know what you want. No use pretending in a realationship your heart is not in. I have been there too! You don't want to hurt her, but you've got to tell her the truth so that she does not hold anything against you in future. Brace up! i say again Braaace up!!!!
2006-10-19 04:49:46 · answer #6 · answered by sweetlips 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you need to talk and then put all your cards on the table. Tell her exactly how you feel and how its been when you've been trying to explain it to her.
I would say write her a letter and then give it to her but that's not something a guy/man would do so just go with your gut.
2006-10-19 04:28:22 · answer #7 · answered by sweetthang16_2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The sissy way is to just stop calling her or start spending less time together. She will get the point.
The real way is to tell her straight out or if you don't want to hurt her as much get her to start a fight or break up with you? Don't just start acting like a dick though. Girls feel better when they got the last word in by dumping you.
The best idea though is to try to replace her. Don't throw away a peice of *** till you have another one in place.
2006-10-19 04:28:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
You don't say why you want to end it with this girl but whatever the reason don't be nasty to her, she'll go on with most of her life thinking all men are jerks all because you were too scared to break up with her. She'll be more hurt if she ever found out you stayed with her because you weren't brave enough to end it!
2006-10-19 04:30:51 · answer #9 · answered by C Greene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Step back, be 100% sure that you do not want to be with her, take a deep breath and tell her.
dont wuss out or you'll hurt her more in the long run!
2006-10-19 04:29:57 · answer #10 · answered by DEMON 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋