there s an x of mine that never gave me a second chance, we will chat on the phone after our break up but she will never want to hang out with me and always played these games
i have seen or talk to her in 10 months
what should i do in these situations and what will u do or have u ever encounter this?
here are a couple of scenarios
1 - u r walking down the street and u bump into ur x
what will u do?
2 - now u are at a club, what will u do if u bump into ur x
will u make moves on her, will u ask her to dance, will u ignore them, or make them jealous
now remember this x of urs u still have feelings for and for any one out there who understand this question feel free to answer n talk about ur experience
2006-10-19 04:16:53 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
personally I'd ask for a ********, if she shows resistance, only a hand job
2006-10-19 04:19:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Depends on the circumstances:
If you are still friends and have a real friendship then you talk to them as a friend. It doesn't sound like that is the situation though.
You can't blame her for not giving you a "second chance" if things don't work out the first time there is a reason, so why would they work out the second time? She is just bieng smart about it.
You don't want to ignore them completely, that is rude and immature but don't make the "first" move. Simply respond to her.
If they are there and she comes up to you simply say "hi" and engage in idle non-personal chatter. If she doesn't come up to you, don't come up to her. If you bump into each other just be polite and be on your way. Don't try to prolong a conversation or make it deeper.
If you have feelings for her then the best thing to do is to talk to her as little as humanly possible if at all until those feelings fade.
2006-10-19 11:26:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just say hello how are you doing and just open the lines of communication. Bummping into someone is not the time to try and rekindel something.You have no idea how there day has been or what they are doing out. I have had this happen quite a few times and honestly I have had it happen both ways they still like me but I am not intreasted in them and vice a versa. I always found the guy who would just act normal not put pressure on the encounter to be the one I thought about the most after seeing them.
2006-10-19 11:23:21 · answer #3 · answered by Jax 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would still ignore her if shes being messed up even though I still have feelings for her. I have been through the same but well if i know for sure that i wont have a chance to get back with her well I wouldnt talk to her or at least maybe just say hi but not even
2006-10-19 11:38:40 · answer #4 · answered by Deadman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if i was in the street and I saw one of my ex's i would keep walking like i didn't see them and i wouldn't say anything unless they said something to me.If i was in the club i would ignore them and dance with a lot of other people and hopefully make them jealous so they want me back and try not to let them see that i know that they're there.Once i was at an old job and i was working when one of my ex's walked in and i ran and i hid and watched him form far away so he didn't see me because he was with another girl and i didn't want him to see me but i think he did anyway.
2006-10-19 11:24:27 · answer #5 · answered by serenity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Peronally, I think you are making too much out of your ex. MY ex cannot make me jealous because I coulnd't care less what she does. My advise is to get on with your life. Put the past behind you, look forward. Don't play petty games trying to make him or her jealous. Ignore them and live you life. Remember, only the dumbest people run back into a fire.
2006-10-19 11:23:22 · answer #6 · answered by johnno K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look babe.... i think that it is about time for you to move on... you need to get back in the game.... 10 months with NO action?? no wonder you are trippin.. you have way to much time for thinking!!! find a new hot chick and take her out.., and have fun... forget the ex.... and if u see her... try and act normal... once you have moved on it will be a lot easier to face her... cuz u wont be thinkin in the back of your head how hung up on her you STILL are... take care.. and get back out there!!!
2006-10-19 11:22:25 · answer #7 · answered by *CYN* 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
say hi and talk to her and show her that you have change for good and still care for her and make your move, ans 1- say Hi and ask her what she doing and where is she going and ask her if you can join her to
ans 2- make a move and ask her to dance
2006-10-19 11:26:34 · answer #8 · answered by maya 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. I WOULD PUSH THEM INTO THE MIDDLE OF THE STREET AND HOPE AND CAR RUN THEM OVER.
2. I THE CLUB I WOULD ASK HIM TO BUY ME A DRINK.
2006-10-19 11:21:01 · answer #9 · answered by buttercup 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
good question, if the feeling is weird I just try to ignore them so they wont detect me.
2006-10-19 11:20:07 · answer #10 · answered by I SLEEP TO DIE. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋