my boifriend is a little mad at me rite now because he thinks im cheatin on him wit my best friend who happens to be bi and i used to think i was that way too and he knows that and i cant get him over that insecurtie that i am not datin her and never will cus i dont cheat and if i did for somereason it sure as hell wouldnt be a chik ive tried explaining to him that i dont like chiks that way and that i love him way to much to do that to him i just dont know what to do
2006-10-19 04:04:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Seriously, I think that you should just do your part to reassure him that you are committed to the relationship. (If you really want it to work) If it is worth it to you, dont give up. Maybe you should not spend as much time with your friend if it is causing problems. Im not saying choose him over her, I am just saying it might put his mind at ease. I wish you luck!
2006-10-19 04:11:01 · answer #1 · answered by Tamekia Anderson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am assuming that you told him that you had ideas about your best friend before you met him. Shouldn't have done that.
You really cannot do anything about it. He just doesn't trust you.
Be very careful however. I have heard of similar situations and it always ends because the man says he cannot trust the woman.
There could be a possibility that he just wants a time away from you or even to break up with you and he just doesn't know how to tell you that so he is using this as a scape goat. There is also a possibility that he has done something and when you find out about it he could make it look like it was you that caused him to do it.
2006-10-19 04:21:01 · answer #2 · answered by Osunwole Adeoyin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I accept as true with all people else that asserts that men say that alot whilst they're honestly those cheating. yet another concern, each so often people will try this merely via fact they have self-worth matters, they're controlling or they're merely abusive. If a guy accuses you of cheating and you at the instant are not, and there are no signs and indications that should probably cause them to have faith which you're cheating then you definitely ought to leave them or a minimum of attempt to sparkling up the underlying subject that's inflicting them to act they way they're.
2016-11-23 19:22:14 · answer #3 · answered by reel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think've done enough. In order to have a good relationship you need to be able to trust one another, and it doesn't look like he trusts you. Maybe, with some luck, he'll eventually get over the idea and come to his senses... if not... maybe it's time to find someone who gives you a little more credit.
2006-10-19 04:09:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There isn't much you can do to make him think differently. You need to be careful what you tell people your dating because they can weave all sorts of things in their head. I learned that the hard way.
2006-10-19 04:11:16 · answer #5 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he cant believe you then you and your friend need to go up to him and tell him to his face say it calmly so he dosen't get mad at you and s he dosen't think your lien to him and also you shouldn't let him get to you if you know deep down in your heart that you are not that way then you shouldn't care what the fusk he says and also you shouldn't care what he says or thinks
2006-10-19 05:26:31 · answer #6 · answered by gabriel g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's using reverse psycology. Maybe he really WANTS you to be sleeping with her, and hopes to get a piece of the lesbian action...just a thought.
2006-10-19 04:07:53 · answer #7 · answered by smellyfoot ™ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he wants to have a threesome.
2006-10-19 04:07:06 · answer #8 · answered by tractor girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
youve done all you need to do, he now needs to get over it or not.
2006-10-19 04:06:37 · answer #9 · answered by David B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump his ***! He doesn't love or trust you, so why are you sweating it?
2006-10-19 04:08:17 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋