My 2years relationship lasted 4month ago because he cheated on me. Now he trying to make me jalousie by telling people that he found beautiful, she is tall, and that she is right girl. now he got engaged in just 3 month to that girl .he met her a week before we broke up. I gave him my heart for 2 years with out knowing that he is a player.
2006-10-19 03:59:32 · 18 answers · asked by Peace4all 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Ignore the jerk and move on with your life, and find somebody better.
2006-10-19 04:07:47 · answer #1 · answered by JistheRealDeal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Consider yourself lucky for not marrying him. He is a dog. His relationship with this new girl won't last. They've only known eachother for a few months and they're engaged? That's funny. I can see them breaking up before the wedding or him cheating on her too.
He'll come crawling back to you one day when things aren't working out with the new girl. Don't take him back. Hopefully you will be way over him by then and you can tell him he's a loser and to kiss your a.s.s.
2006-10-19 21:37:00 · answer #2 · answered by •√¡rgő• 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dated my son father for 7 years got married and after finding out about another girl I separated from him. He went to live with his grandmother and she (yup the girl) moved in with him 1 month after our separation. He then filed for divorce and they married 2 months after the divorce was final. Well I was crushed through the entire ordeal but I went out, had a good time, and prayed for God to bring the right man into my life. I met this wonderful guy 2 months after I found out my x was re-married. I have been dating him for 6+ years and now engaged to be married 3/31/07.
2006-10-19 16:16:14 · answer #3 · answered by money 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U may not agree with me now but believe me in time you will be glad that he is no longer part of ur life. Emm...... let me think, by then he may be in the process of separating with his fiancée (once a cheat will always be a cheat).
By the way get rid of so call ur friends who has been passing gossip to you. Why tell u this rubbish unless they have a hidden agenda to upset you. You don't need them they are as bad as ur X.
It's better for you to change ur social circle so that u don't see or hear anything about him
2006-10-19 11:17:39 · answer #4 · answered by SMB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to let the people know sharing this information, that you are not interested. Unless you are. Then don't say anything, just nod your head. Take it one day at a time. If you run into each other, introduce yourself not a his ex, just as yourself! Smile and shake her hand only. Congratulate her. Then smile at him and say you wish them the best of luck. That is it, short and sweet. It leaves him wondering what the hell happened and her thinking your not as bad as he says you are.
2006-10-19 18:00:57 · answer #5 · answered by firey_cowgirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares what he does? He is a jerk and a player. You have to convince yourself that he was that way to you and he'll be that way to his new girl, too. You deserve to be treated with dignity. First of all you have to be okay with being alone. Once you find yourself, go out there and get yourself a good guy and dson't settle for less. Good guys are out there.....you just can't meet them at a bar or on line........
2006-10-19 11:09:46 · answer #6 · answered by jachooz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why the hell do you CARE?
you really want him back that bad, so he can tear your heart out AGAIN? he's just going to cheat on her too, or any other girl hegets with. you understand that, right?
MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE. he's not you. she's not you. it's none of your business. you are only making yourself sad and miserable on purpose. you're NEVER getting back together with him, because he is a CHEATER.
move on. find something else to make you happy. take it as a lesson learned. dont have regrets. things happen. just be happy.
2006-10-19 11:08:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is going to sound harsh but please don't take offense to it. If he got engaged 3 months after your broke up, you weren't the girl for him and clearly he's not the man for you. This is proof that you are better off. I know it hurts, and through all your grieving and crying, keep in mind that you deserve better.
And, if he cheated on you, chances are, he'll cheat on her too!
2006-10-19 11:08:57 · answer #8 · answered by ~mj~ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My ex husband remarried right after we signed our papers. The woman he married was the woman he cheated on me with. I just thought....you can have him! If he cheated on me...he will cheat on you also!!! There are many more men out there. It might be hard for you, but be glad it happened now. Beauty is skin deep!
2006-10-19 11:09:18 · answer #9 · answered by hard rock girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To handle things like this you should just leave him along in just find you another man. one that you know is right for you and than your x willing be the jalousie. because he will see you happy. with another man that's better then him.
2006-10-19 11:05:56 · answer #10 · answered by Jensu-kun 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The best way to handle it is to get over it. Sounds like you knew what you were getting into. So, learn from your mistakes, and try to do better next time.
2006-10-19 14:33:00 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋