To start, there is a girl who has a thing for me. I was not attracted to her. Well so I wasn't such a douche I went out with her a couple of times, and must say that I did gain an attraction to her. She is smart, funny, passionate, and very affectionate. She wanted to take things really fast and after hanging with her twice - she wanted to sleep together. I do not want to ruin what we have going so I asked her to wait. ( I am also still a virgin and want to save my first time for someone I love). I did not know where we were going, so last night I asked her what she wanted from this relationship. She said that she wants something "casual" and physical, and she doesn't know if starting a relationship is a good idea because she may be moving. I told her it is worth it, even if its only for like three months - it would be a great three months. Should I try and forget her, or still try to feel things out? Im so confused!
2006-10-19 03:57:39 · 5 answers · asked by IrishGuy85 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That is always a hard situation...if you a together for 3 months do you think she will push you to sleep together? also you know she doesn't want anything serious or with any strings attached - but it sounds like you are looking for love....unless you can feel the same way about the relationship - and have something causal i would stay away - never let anyone change you beliefs - especially if she will be gone soon anyways....who know you may be missing out on love if you spent time with her and she isn't what you are looking for!
good luck!
2006-10-19 04:02:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of it this way:
Three months of a purely physical relationship and at the end of those three months there'd be no strings attached, she'd just leave and you'd have had her as many times as you'd like.
I don't know of many guys who would turn this down, but then again if you're waiting for love you've got yourself the wrong girl here.
2006-10-19 04:02:31 · answer #2 · answered by Ally S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to feel things out a little more, but if youre planning on waiting until youre in love, dont give in or you'll regret it later. If she's still on the casual physical thing after two more dates, you should probably move on.
2006-10-19 04:00:28 · answer #3 · answered by Annette J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow for what you feel is best. If you feel that you could get something wonderful out of a relationship with her then pursue it. If not then just forget it. Sometimes sex isn't the only thing you can get out of a relationship whether she sees that or not
2006-10-19 04:01:35 · answer #4 · answered by Jessica Meganâ?¢ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't want a relationship, I think.
2006-10-19 04:00:34 · answer #5 · answered by Webballs 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋