okay well this is how it goes..there is this guy that i think im starting to like...and umm i dun think it would be the right thing because his parents seem not to like me...but i mean we are both falling for eatchother and its very sad and confusing when i go over there and i cant even be with him...and then i feel bad doing it behind their back so idk wat to do should i just tell this guy that we should be friends for awhile 1st? r wat? idk i wish sumone out there can please give me sum good advice thanks!
2006-10-19 03:52:42 · 3 answers · asked by BabyG 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
when you're still living with your parents, you can be subjected to their input when it comes to dating and you have two options... you can ignore it and rebel against them or you can accept it. later on, you might still get their input but at least then, you don't have to take their advice. it's very different when you're living under their roof. ideally, parents shouldn't interfere with your relationships unless they feel like you're just too young to be dating. and unfortunately, no matter how ready you may think you are, until you're of age, they're going to be making that judgement call for you.
and in your current situation, unfortunately, there isn't anything you can do to get his parents to like you. maybe they're concerned with him getting distracted in school or sports or whatever. if you can back off and give this guy some breathing room, perhaps do what you suggested, be friends first and see where you go from there.
good luck.
2006-10-19 04:01:36 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Parents shouldn't matter! If you guys are into each other then go for it! Its not the parents that you are getting involved with and if they make you uncomfortable then its your mans responsibility to make you feel comfortable. If he cant then you are only going to beat your head against the wall and you should just be friends! Parents don't have to like you, it helps, but like I said, your not getting into a relationship with them!
2006-10-19 11:02:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to find out why his parents dislike u and try to change from there..if ur thinking about a long term relationship with him then u definitely have to please his parents and make them think that ur suitable for him..but if ur feelings for him its not that deep yet, i suggest u try to look for another guy cuz parents are really unpredictable when it comes to this stuff(love relationships)..in the mean time u can be friends with him and go to his house more often, talk to his parents all the time..they wont dislike u forever..
2006-10-19 11:01:39 · answer #3 · answered by Tim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋