i need some help finding ways to spend time with her?
2006-10-19 03:47:45 · 13 answers · asked by ElizabethG 1 in Pets ➔ Dogs
When my dog became ill, we knew we would have to put him down. So, we stuffed him with all his favorite foods, let him taste chocolate for the first time, and gave him as many Frosty Paws as he would eat. He had had a stroke, but loved his walks. Since he wasn't able to walk, we borrowed a neighbor's red wagon and put him in that. We walked him everywhere he loved to go. His last day was a happy time for him.
Do whatever you dog loves to do, then do it some more. Take pictures to remember her. Spoil her silly. Though we miss Shadow every day (lost him on 2/1/06), we know that he had a great last day. That was the least we could give him.
Just remember to spend as much time with her as you can. It will be worth it.
Blessings for you at such a difficult time.
2006-10-19 04:02:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you worried she might die this winter? Ten years old is not that old for dogs. Has she been sick?
I wouldn't think about the negative of her getting old, but spend my time enjoying her company and making sure she is comfortable and loved. She's obviously been a great friend, and no matter what, you will always have that memory!
2006-10-19 03:59:14 · answer #2 · answered by samkcmo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on the breed, 10 is not an old dog. Is she in bad health now?
Take her to the vet, and have her checked over. If you have established a relationship with your vet, tell them your fears. They may be able to give you warning signs to watch for that her health is beginning to deteriorate.
Having a pet being your best friend is a special relationship. I have had (mostly cats) pet friends for my entire life. You do love them and miss them desparately when they are gone.
All I can say is love her, keep up on her health needs, and keep her with you during the course of your daily tasks at home. Snuggle with her, play with her, kiss her, talk to her. She knows she's loved, and that's what's important.
I truly hope you're wrong about the future, and wish you happy years to come with your companion.
2006-10-19 04:00:59 · answer #3 · answered by kids and cats 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I lost my best friend (dog) last month. And I spent a lot of extra time with him. Especially in his last week.
My advice is to do everything you can to help keep her as comfortable as possible. Take her for walks, play with her, talk to her do everything you can!
In my dogs last week I spent way more time with him then I ever did before. I slept with him down stairs for a whole week because he was having seizures and he got very scared and I didn't want him to be all alone threw it.
So just do what ever you can to keep your friend happy and comfortable. That is my advice, and I'm sorry that you might lose your best friend this year :*( My best wishes to you and your dog.
2006-10-19 05:29:12 · answer #4 · answered by Danny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do all you can to make her life comfortable and enjoyable in her last days. Shower her with hugs and affection. Keep her warm and out of the cold, old dogs have joint problems. Remember the good times you've had with her, tell her how much you love her. Do what you can through the vet to limit her pain and suffering if that occurs. Know that in heaven, she will greet you with a wagging tail.
2006-10-19 03:57:16 · answer #5 · answered by MadforMAC 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello- Why do you think your dog may die at 10 yrs. old. That is still young for dogs! Unless she is ill, I don't think you need to worry about losing her yet. Just walk her and watch t.v. with her and love her. Take her with you as permitted. Have fun with her. My dog is 8 yrs. old and alot of life still in her. Some dogs can live 18 or more yrs. Enjoy!!
2006-10-19 03:56:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can understand your pain. Our Rottie was diagonised with cancer the first of September. We started the chemo on her and she seemed much better. Then she died on Sept. 30. I am heartbroken, she was my best friend also. But.....the one thing someone told me, that I am very thankful for was to take a lot of pictures. I did this and even though I had many of pictures of her already, it still helped to have the last ones. I wish you and your friend the best.
2006-10-19 04:38:05 · answer #7 · answered by Sue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF you love her as much as you say, you shouldn't need any help finding ways to spend time with her.
2006-10-19 03:51:42 · answer #8 · answered by Spirit Walker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
However much time that you spend with her here is my advice - don't get emotional around her. Dogs can sense your levels of emotion & if you become upset or cry around her or even show fear that you will loose her soon - she might sense that something is wrong.
2006-10-19 04:00:44 · answer #9 · answered by dmnyco 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dogs make no demands as far as how you spend your time with them. All time is quality time. Play with her, sit with her, walk with her, whatever. She'll appreciate the attention, and you'll have a good time, too.
2006-10-19 03:56:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋