My girlfriend and i had sex the other day WITHOUT a condom, and everything was alright...
She is on the pill, but we had abit of a scare the other day because i came inside her (quite alot of semen) and now we have both agreed that its best if i use a condom!
The problem is... whenever we kiss and get into the mood, i get an erection, but the moment we stop to put on a condom, my erection dies, and i just CANT get it up again!
I have thought of many possibilities to help me...
Viagra!??
I have also thought of using a female condom for my girlfriend (but neither of us know exactly how it works...? It looks like a male condom, but it has TWO rings... and the closed side goes into the vagina... so does the other side go over the penis or wat?
Anyone with any answers to any of my problems please help me out!
2006-10-19 03:39:14 · 10 answers · asked by Jazz 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Kudos to you both! Using both condoms and the pill is a responsible thing to do. If putting on a condom makes you lose your erection, you should try to find a way to make it somewhat enjoyable. You say that you STOP to put on a condom, maybe that's the problem. Perhaps your girlfriend can put it on you? If she gets creative, she can find a way to put it on you during foreplay so that your mind is occupied with something else, and not focusing on the condom.
I highly doubt that a doctor would prescribe Viagra for you, it is used only for males who cannot achieve an erection. You can get an erection when not putting on a condom so you're not a good candidate.
As far as the female condom - your girlfriend should ask her doctor about it. That's what doctors are for. The doctor will describe how the female condom works, and how to use it. She will help your girlfriend decide if it is the right choice for the two of you.
Best of Luck!!
2006-10-19 03:53:49 · answer #1 · answered by Memphis qt 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If putting on a condom seems to be the only thing that interferes with erection, there are a couple of simple solutions. A guy can have his partner put the condom on him as part of sex play. This can help him stay aroused and erect. If that doesn't work, a couple can use a female condom instead. At last, if the problem isn't the condom itself because the erection is lost during the act, it also could be a sign of a bad condom-type choice (not well-fitting). You also should think about a sort of allergy towards the "latex" though a rare fact.
2016-03-18 21:49:18 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried using a different type of male condom, like one that has more room or is thinner?
Its probably just a mental issue. I have a guy friend that has the same problem. He gets so worked up, thinking that it wont feel as good with a condom on, that his dick loses interest in the whole ordeal.
2006-10-19 03:49:06 · answer #3 · answered by Kris 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-14 19:13:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like interrupting the mood is the problem. Maybe your girlfriend can continue to stimulate you in other ways while you put on the condom.
2006-10-19 03:45:32 · answer #5 · answered by dr_imzadi 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try having your girlfriend put the condom on you, like a game or part of the show.
2006-10-19 03:42:37 · answer #6 · answered by Phoenix, Wise Guru 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep the mood going by making putting a condom foreplay. Have your gf put it on for you. That should work.
2006-10-19 04:28:10 · answer #7 · answered by *T1nk* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your best bet is to have your go to the doctor and have them explain how to use the female condom. Good luck
2006-10-19 03:44:48 · answer #8 · answered by msleya2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
closed end goes inside, open end just hangs outside and you insert into it. You must have some kind of emotional difficulty with the male condom, 22 y/o shouldnt be having such trouble.
2006-10-19 03:43:15 · answer #9 · answered by David B 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
try getting your girlfriend to put the comdon on you with her hand or mouth and see if you stay up like that
2006-10-19 03:43:10 · answer #10 · answered by besos 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋