i have a problem with my girlfriend, its been going on since we started dating but now its worsening. when we tsarted dating, she had a hard time finding time for me because she said that she had to help at home(they have a day care). i decided to give her a chance to decide when we shall hang out , for sometime this helped. but now its worsening. the we "truly" hang out together was probarbly a month ago. mostly she would come to my place for at most 3hrs and we would have sex and immediately find an excuse to leave. the other thing is that she no longer calls me as much as she used to and am tired of being the one who is always into her. i gave her a present afew days ago and she didnt even thank me. this situation is so pitiful because she doesnt seem to think that things are not going the way they should coz last week she was asking if we could have a baby. am so confused and i dont want to think that she is being unfaithful but i dont know whats going on.
2006-10-19 03:33:34 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u need to test her. break up with her saying all these things that u say here. ask her the excact same question u ask here. if she doesnt try to hold on to u then it may be better for u to leave
2006-10-19 03:38:16 · answer #1 · answered by dimitrakavoukopoulou 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read the signs--she's just not that into you. Move on. There's no telling why, but you have to get a grip and see the reality of the situation. She's not responding to you the way you want, and now she's talking about babies!
Absolutely do not have unprotected sex with her or you'll find yourself forever connected and financially obligated to someone who doesn't care for you. Clearly, you are not ready to be a father.
Both of you are too immature and your relationship is nearly nonexistent--this is not a situation to bring a needy, defenseless child into. That would be tantamount to child abuse from the beginning of its life. Would you really want that?
2006-10-19 10:46:23 · answer #2 · answered by KIT J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're confused?... so am i....no seriously you both need to talk with each other to sort out what it is, that's going on here otherwise you will find your relationship slipping away, because of unspoken feelings that need to be addressed....sex alone cannot hold a relationship together, so try and sort things out, before it's too late. Good Luck.
2006-10-19 10:39:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋