My x-bf and I were together for about 1 year in total and finally broke up in April, not because of problems just because he decided he didn't want to commit to anyone yet. We had never slept with each other not even when we were official because it wasn't importatnt to us. We wanted to base our relationship on something more then just sex. Afetr we broke up in April we stayed friends and continued to be intimate with each other other then sex. But like he said :just friends". About 3 weeks ago we had decided not to speak to each other and really see if we could live our lives without each other, so we went our seperate ways. About a week later we bumped into each other at a club and he picked me up in his arms telling me how much he misses me and how happy he is to see me. Next thing I know I am back at his place and we slept with each other. My question to all you men is what the hell happened? Why did he finally wanna sleep with me after so long of holding back. What made it ok the
2006-10-19 03:30:43 · 14 answers · asked by Pipsquik 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is something odd here, any red-blooded male would have jumped you at the first opportunity.
Is it possible that he's a bit acdc and had to resolve that before making the decision?
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2006-10-19 03:31:56 · answer #1 · answered by GoogleRules 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing made it ok. First, remember you bumped into him so that is where the connection came from. Him saying he missed you and was happy to see you. Think about it, that was easy to say you ran into him.
If he truly missed you he would have come to you. Not be at a club.
Sleeping together when you did was wrong. He wanted out to move on. Then it was decided (probably by him not to talk anymore to see how you both felt) if you don't know that answer being apart will not tell you. He wants out and probably for whatever reason felt guilty when he saw you knew how you felt about him and then it became easy for him. Best advise. Grant his wishes walk away.......Thing about it he made it clear several times he wanted no part of being with you.
2006-10-19 10:44:43 · answer #2 · answered by cutetoes68 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing made it ok. Girl u deserve betta than this break up with him & move on with ur life. Don't b his friend either, just stop talking 2 him.
2006-10-19 10:33:20 · answer #3 · answered by lakersfan_4life1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he realized he had a good thing going with you and should not have left. Or he's playing you. You need to have a long talk.
2006-10-19 10:33:18 · answer #4 · answered by parental unit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guess is that before he left you completly he wanted to see how you felt 100%
2006-10-19 10:32:50 · answer #5 · answered by greatgiginthesky_80 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what the real question is... what made it ok for you? What changed in your life that you would give it up to a man that can not commit to you?
2006-10-19 10:33:26 · answer #6 · answered by Patti T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it was ok because you allowed it to happen, first of all. and that the pressure and seriousness of the relationship was over so he was able to do it without feeling guilty.
2006-10-19 10:32:54 · answer #7 · answered by Sharona 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has other girls and no one treated him as the way you did and this is why he did miss you and want you in that way...but be careful because its doesn't mean that you are the one that he is looking for..
2006-10-19 10:38:47 · answer #8 · answered by Max 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it's because u didn't want to and now ur ok with it. if u want something go out and get it - in ur case grab it girl ;)
2006-10-19 10:33:42 · answer #9 · answered by spliff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't want to let you go, and you don't either. Their is still a peice of both of you in your heart, so don't fight it.
2006-10-19 10:33:53 · answer #10 · answered by *+* Miss NATION*+* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋