Will he go 2 fast 4 me?

Question

I had someone leave me about 9 months ago cuz he got freaked out after making out with me.he never had a g/f b-4 and now this new guy I'm really interested in hasn't had a g/f b-4 either.he's 18.he's into video games but he makes time for me.we firlt and have been friends for 4 months now.I want to kiss him when he comes home for winter break.how can I make sure it doesn't escalate?I want to take things slow and have fun with him,don't want to confuse or overwhelm him and for him to grow to have strong feelings for me.I also need advice on toning down my passionate kissing.

Answer 1

Well since he's coming home for the winter break sneak him a peck on the cheek at first, and if he wants more let him make the first move. Don't make the kiss too long because then you're going to have a problem with trying to stop what's going to happen next. Good Luck!!!

Answer 2

well, if things try to escalate, then stop it and tell him you want to go slow. if he won't listen, grab his gonads, squeeze as hard as you can, twist, and yank and while he rolls in pain, run away.
if he doesn't respect your wishes, he needs his *** beat, and very badly. he needs to go to jail.
but anyways, to tone down your kisses, make slow and easy, not fast and hard. and don't let it speed up. and make them intermitant. for example, kiss a few seconds, pull away just a inch or so, and then go back in for a few seconds.
and be sparing with the toungue.
barely use it.
give a little, but no wrestling.
and keep your hands, and more so his, where they don't insinuate anything.
hand on the cheek, or neck is ok.
but hand on leg is trying to escalate.
also hand on waist.
if you are going to make out though, you just have to be carefull.
and stop if cloths try to be removed, or he gets to handsy.
because if you let him start..... it's a launch sequence.
it's a little harder to stop.

and i'm a guy, so trust me......
don't let him get any ideas......

Answer 3

You need to find an outlet for all your pent up frustration.... buy a vibrator and settle down.
Your kiss is the opening a man needs to go further.
If you want to go slow, give a little kiss and do lots of hugging and touching... You have to stay out of his personal space. If he wants to kiss you he will, you need to put your tongue back in your mouth....
If you act like dog in heat,,, you will find the heat, believe me.....
Stop acting so sexual and tone your impulses down.....

Answer 4

um sweetheart. Be honest with him. Tell him what your thinking. If he is that great, then you can talk to him and let him know what you are wanting and he will either understand or he will go and you can find some one else to kiss. Also the FIRST guy..... if he says he left because you made out with him..... A GUY left a girl because he got past first base????? ask yourself this and look at other guys. Because I never met a man who left a girl because they made out, there has to be more to it than that.

Answer 5

tell him you have a rule - that clothes stay on, or at least pants stay on.

I had that rule when I was 18 and dating a very passionate and physical guy - but we never broke the rule. pants stayed on, and I didn't have to worry about going too far or getting pregnant.

Answer 6

i mean i would let him know that im interested ( for instance: "I really love spending time with you and im begining to like you i dont want to move to fast or you know freak you out but i would love to kiss your lips") and if he bites then you control the kiss maybe start with no tongue thats how you control it....

Answer 7

IF YOU WANNA TAKE IT SLOW THEN LET HIM MAKE THE FRIST MOVE THEN GENTLY KISS HIM AND IF HE GETS EXTREME THEN LET HIM KNOW RIGHT THEN AND THEIR HOW YOU WANT THINGS TO GO IN THAT REALATIONSHIP!!

Answer 8

Be clear on exactly what you want and how far you want to go.

Answer 9

don't let him get any ideas.

Answer 10

your'e weird...