Could a 40 year old woman, young at heart, looks a good 10 years younger and as fit and healthy as a 20year old keep the interest of a 30yr old male? or would he ultimately look for someone younger????
2006-10-19 02:23:22 · 25 answers · asked by not such a smart girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am married to a guy who is 10 years younger than me. I was 31(now almost 34)and he was 21 when we got together. The age thing doesnt come into it for us. We love each other and we both feel its the best relationship each of us has had. If our marriage doesnt survive it wont be anything to do with the age difference, it will be culture differences.
I say to you, go for it. If you love each other you can work through any issues that might arise!
2006-10-19 02:54:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This depends on the woman and the man. There was a show recently on What not to wear and the programme was about older women and younger men. When watching the programme i realise that the main problem with most of the women was that they dressed like they were old women. No sense of style or even respect for themselves. The secret is to look your best and to work with what you have. Dress up to date but not like mutton dressed as lamb. To hide the bits that are not so go for those that are. To take interest in what he likes and do things together. Make him proud to have you as his partner. As to whether he will look else where age is not a reason just an excuse for women to feel bad about themselves. Enjoy what you have now and do not worry about what could happen.
I myself am 6 years older then my partner and him leaving me for a younger model is the last thing on my mind live for today and enjoy what i have know.
Good luck
2006-10-19 02:55:58 · answer #2 · answered by christine w 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2014-08-29 13:33:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the guy, his maturity, and yours. Depends on your tastes, what you want out of a relationship, and if those things are compatible. Relationships with that big of a gap CAN work, but don't rush into them. Stand back, put aside your feelings, and take a good long look (both of you should do this) to see if this is what you want. Talk about your goals for the future, and where you are hoping your relationship to go. Get it all out there on the table in the open. Then, if it still looks like it's a good idea, by all means go ahead! :)
2006-10-19 02:32:50 · answer #4 · answered by The Link 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think its totally possible. I have seen some women in their 40's that are nothing short of drop dead gorgeouse. As long as she is "young at heart" not immature for her age or age inappropriate. Maturity and a womans life experience is part of the draw to an older woman .
2006-10-19 02:29:18 · answer #5 · answered by teenypurplebinky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES. Love and commitment are not restrained by age limits. He will not necessarily look for someone younger if the relationship is built upon true love. Once both of you accept each other for who you are rather than who you should be, things will turn out right.
2006-10-19 02:30:16 · answer #6 · answered by doc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am a 27 yr old male an i usually date women 38-44 it is something that i like about older women. but yes some men i guess will get to a point an prowl for someone younger.
2006-10-19 02:26:42 · answer #7 · answered by James R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definetly it COULD work...but neither of you can get so hung up on it that its a constant topic of conversation. Like if you made significantly more money then him. Yes it might be an issue at first...but if you just accept it as "just the way things are" you'll be fine. Also you can't control whether or not he accepts it...if he doesn't you'll have to move on and its gonna hurt like h*ll but there's nothing you can do about it!!!
2006-10-19 02:29:30 · answer #8 · answered by Kyppa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No there shouldn't be a problem with it not surviving. My aunt is 11 years younger then her husband, and a friend of mine's mom is 9 years older than her husband. It can work i promise
2006-10-19 02:27:15 · answer #9 · answered by Jessica Meganâ?¢ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've always dated older women cuz there is a thing about a full grown woman that has always been a turn on for me...And somehow it has now turned into a fad. If you keep his interest then he has no reason to look elsewhere.
2006-10-19 02:27:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋