of the idea of friends with benifits?
some women can't take it and get attached while others are cool.
let me know what yall think
2006-10-19 02:22:40 · 13 answers · asked by BOOM 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it all depends on the women as sex to some women is a deeper meaning that goes with love. its hard to seperate the 2!! Be up front with her!!
2006-10-19 02:26:23 · answer #1 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just like you had said in another sex question, the woman is to give up the goods!! the point is with this question is that some women are more sensitive than others, or they don't mind putting out, also known as whores, sluts. You get the idea. What is wrong with having a girl for a friend, and no sex? you may be fun to be around, so keep it simple.
2006-10-19 18:38:38 · answer #2 · answered by DONNA'S NIGHTMARE COME TRUE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love the idea but in the end, there is always feelings. I personally think that a women can not be in a situation as that without having a slight bit of feelings....even if they say that don't want anything BUT the benefit's!
2006-10-19 09:27:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys look at it much clearer than girls do. Girls that do that and are fine with it, sleep around. Why would you want that? Unless you could care less. But girls need security/love/compassion. Why would we just 'sleep' with someone that we didn't care about? It's not even worth the agony and pain. She is giving her body away to someone she doesn't even care for over and over....again. She's a slut. And she's afraid that she won't find someone to truly love her.
2006-10-19 09:26:00 · answer #4 · answered by inlovewow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm married now but when I was younger I loved it because I didn't have to answer to anyone's calls if I didn't want to and I could go out with my girls and pick up all the guys I wanted and didn't have to worry about who say me, for there was going to be no consequence. I WAS all for it!
2006-10-19 09:28:29 · answer #5 · answered by Chantelle D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Benefits for whom? Usually the guy gets all of the good bennies and the girl just gets laid. If you have a friend who provides benefits... she has low self esteem.
2006-10-19 09:27:36 · answer #6 · answered by dena_lisa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I mean I don't have no problem with it but it's just something you would catch me doing, for me I feel as if you ain't my man you can't get no goodies, that's just my choice, but I'm not against it period and think it is just wrong.
2006-10-19 09:28:32 · answer #7 · answered by babycakes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have done it before, sometimes that is the best sex! No strings attached!
2006-10-19 09:30:45 · answer #8 · answered by Sweet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it's a fantastic idea. the only problem is that the guys always get emotionally attached.
2006-10-19 09:25:58 · answer #9 · answered by janicebks 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I agree with Luna. I don't like to share. I want them all to myself
2006-10-19 09:32:09 · answer #10 · answered by Jessica Meganâ?¢ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋