My friend (ah hem) has this problem. . .
She's fallen in love with this man, whom she just recently met.
What's crazy about it is they are a fantastic match in every way. . .
except he had just met someone whom he'd started to date before he met me. . .umm. . .my friend. . .
Anyhow, I think he really does want to be with my friend but, he doesn't want to hurt this other woman. . .and he's a little shaky because he can already see my friend might just be the woman he's wanted his entire life, and he's scared of that. . .
What advice can you give me. . . ummm. . . my friend.
2006-10-19 02:18:05 · 16 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you... errr... your friend should take it easy. Obviously this isn't the simplest situation, and obviously the guy probably feels like he's in a pickle. If, um, she really likes him, she should give it time, don't rush him. But she SHOULD talk to him about it. Make her feelings known to him, at the right time. Your friend should use her best judgement as to what to tell him and when, but she confront him and open up. And she should respect that he is trying not to hurt this other girl. That probably just means he is considerate. But then again, you... I mean... she probably shouldn't wait around forever either.
2006-10-19 02:38:39 · answer #1 · answered by The Link 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There isn't much you can do right now. The ball is in his court. And you shouldn't let him think it is okay to lead you on. I would back off, but let him know your feelings first. Make it clear nothing happens with you until he has ended it with her. You don't want to be "that girl". And if he thinks it is okay to do it once he will do it again. Be smart and protect your heart. I know it is hard to wait. It’s true though the best things in life are worth waiting for. Women seem to notice a soul mate before men do. Give him time to realize what you are to him. Most men like to think thing through a little longer then women do. Give him time if it is meant to be it will be.
2006-10-19 02:40:47 · answer #2 · answered by lynx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not engaged or married to someone and are just dating, there is no formality needed, he can just tell her , he is dating someone else..
If you two are a match then so be it... if the chemistry is so strong and you two are like two halves that make a whole, then he should persue the realtionship with you... He doesn't owe anything in particular to the other person unless he has commitments to her.
He is not being mean, ask yourself, why would you go out with someone just to go out, when you have a strong pull to someone else, that coulod lead to something meaningful.....Life is too short....
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2006-10-19 02:28:47 · answer #3 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If He and
2006-10-19 02:23:58 · answer #4 · answered by Fire_God_69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is alway a risk in any type of relationship. If you think that this women is the right one go for it.
Be immediately honest with this other woman so you won't have the hassle of trying to not hurt someone.
2006-10-19 02:28:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Okay, we all know it's you so don't be ashamed. Tell your man to follow his heart. Don't be afraid of love. Love is a gift, not an obligation. The other girl wasn't meant to be. She'll find someone else that better suits her. Why would she be with someone that doesn't love her like she deserves? He loves you, so tell him that you love him and just be together.
2006-10-19 02:23:59 · answer #6 · answered by inlovewow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 19:15:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This relationship (is he married) could only be lust, and the fact
that it might only be a fling. Most ( married men and women) do
say things like this to keep you on the string. I would protect your
heart. I think its about to get hurt.
2006-10-19 02:28:30 · answer #8 · answered by wHaT eVeR 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your "friend" she can't be too sure they're a perfect match in every way...until youv'e ..um ...your friend has gone out with this man for a while...if they're not a perfect match..well then your friend may have just ruined a good thing...
2006-10-19 02:42:33 · answer #9 · answered by roy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she's entered into a problem, sounds like dangerous waters, why would she allow herself to fall for a man that is with someone, sounds to me she got a playa on her heart, an he gonna ride as long as she let him..
2006-10-19 02:24:37 · answer #10 · answered by James R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋