she wasnt always this dam ugly i want to leave her but i havent found a way yet..maybe if i just show her a pic of her self she will understand
2006-10-19 01:36:58 · 30 answers · asked by PETE 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
because her moma is
2006-10-19 01:38:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Do this girl a favor and cut her loss. You don't seem to deserve her. when you're in a relationship with someone you love them for who they are and how they make you feel.You don't base it all on looks.I can understand a bit if she's totally not taking care of herself anymore;that can be depressing but the way you're going about it seems real mean and heartless.I'm not even sure why you're asking this question to strangers. What do you think you're gonna get out of asking something like that? Either way if you're not interested in her anymore or if you're gonna be that superfical then you need to break up with her, for both your sakes.The longer she's with you and used to being with you, the harder it will hurt her and she needs to move on since you seem to be done with her already. It's sad that you'd let that come between you two but I guess I mean there's a reason why some people are friends and others are into each other. If you're not attracted to each other than people don't wanna be together. I get that. it's just I would think if you had real feelings for her that they would overtake the amount that you are attracted to her. Try not to break her heart too badly. I'm sorry she's in this situation. anyway you look at it, it sucks, except that letting her go, she'll find someone who can truely appericate her and you might be able to find someone you can stay attracted to.
good luck with everything.Try not to be so superfical. It really hurts people and sometimes can give them a complex.
2006-10-19 01:52:45 · answer #2 · answered by dabluschmosprincess 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
jason...beauty is in the eyes of the beholder and beauty is skin deep...maybe your the one that should look in the mirror and take a good look at yourself just because some one is not pretty dont mean there not beautiful on the inside just like some pretty people are ugly on the inside..there must have been something that attracted you too her....so stop being mean
2006-10-19 01:44:49 · answer #3 · answered by little_outlaw_angel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How could you say something like that. Thats horrible. You really think you are not ugly. Its not her fault she was born ugly.
If you want to leave her, then say some other reason because if you say she is ugly then she will be heartbroken and never recover.
2006-10-19 01:42:48 · answer #4 · answered by Mr Business 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
are you dating this girl??? well if you are with her and are trying to find a way out then it's good just to tell her up front. If you don't want to hurt her feelings then just tell her that you don't see this going any futher and that you don't want to lead her on anylonger. I know its not the best way to do it but it's better if you say something now then let her get even more atteached
2006-10-19 01:41:02 · answer #5 · answered by derrtyhazel 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're in a dilemna. If you leave without telling her, you might hurt her. If you tell her why you're leaving, you still hurt her.
Maybe you can give her the gift of a certificate good for an extreme makeover. Do it wrapped nicely, with a bow. If she asks, just tell her you thought she would enjoy the "treat."
If that doesn't work, you can always tell her you became gay.
2006-10-19 01:40:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
be honest with her.......... You may seem a bit shallow, as it is all about looks. But at least she will know the truth.
Or maybe you could buy her something, a outfit, a make up kit, some sort of "gift" that would make her want to look better for the guy who needs arm candy.
2006-10-19 01:40:06 · answer #7 · answered by inchantedfriend 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I'm sure it has something to do with self-esteem. It appears that she is getting all the support that you can give her (not). You realize that if you told her how pretty she is, she would step up and try to please you some more. I think the best thing for you to do is leave, grow up, and try again when your mature enough to love someone for who they are.
2006-10-19 01:44:19 · answer #8 · answered by loser 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Obviously looks to you are everything. If you have been with someone for a very long time it shouldn't matter what a person looks like. If you picked only for her looks, your going to be disappointed after having a few kids...
2006-10-19 01:42:06 · answer #9 · answered by Ms.Deb 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
LoL, looks funny :-P
by the way, it's your choice, leave her or stay.
here is your answer, become a sentimental person! takes 10 days, then she will run away from you.
*best of luck*
2006-10-19 02:07:38 · answer #10 · answered by S!mko R 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your rude, she prob. does'nt think your to hot either! true love never fades that way....if you behled the beauty you would still see it now. You were only with her for looks, and thats not love but lust. So you should do her a favor and do what a ball does.
BOUNCE
2006-10-19 01:41:19 · answer #11 · answered by CeKaye L 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋