Man i've been wit this dude 4 like a month and a half now. And I jus cant stop thinking about him non-stop its like an addiction. Everytime I come near him I get chills and **** but is it love? Because wit me I don fall in love easily, it takes me awhile. So what do yall think?
2006-10-19 01:25:33 · 16 answers · asked by Jazzy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
`Love is the feeling you feel when you feel you are going to feel the feeling you've never felt before.
2006-10-19 01:40:30 · answer #1 · answered by Da Judge 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, not necessarily. Chills, always thinking about them, having strong feelings, and everything like that is all good, and there is nothing wrong with it! But that's just not what love is, that's infatuation.
Love isn't a feeling, it's something totally different! It is selflessly putting someone else before yourself, wanting to give of yourself to them regardless of how you feel and what you get in return, and being comitted to them through whatever comes in the future. Love is an attitude, a state of mind, a decision, and even an action. It can produce feelings (like affection, etc;), but it itself is not a feeling, and it endures no matter what you feel.
Anything less than this just isn't love, its only emotion. And emotions change, no matter how stong they seem, no matter how much it seems like you will always feel that way, your emotions WILL change. That's just what emotions do.
This is not to say that emotions can't lead to love. They can. But love takes maturity and comittment. Don't go saying "I love you" until you know you can mean it, and mean it for real.
2006-10-19 08:46:36 · answer #2 · answered by The Link 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Might be. I know the man I am with was love at first sight.... we actually met off the internet through my bestfriend, turns out he is her cousin and we havent been apart ever since. and we been together for 3 months now.
2006-10-19 08:29:02 · answer #3 · answered by bt30711 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heyyyy best friend!!!!!
im sitting next to you right now answering this..... i knwo the dude youre with..... he is goofy and ive seen the way you act when you talk about him and you glow when ever you see him...
i dont know if it is love but i can say it is definately heading for it!!
2006-10-19 08:56:18 · answer #4 · answered by Nick B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When me and my husband first started dating we told each other i love you after about two months into the relationship...and here we are 4 years later married! =) Go with your heart!
2006-10-19 08:36:02 · answer #5 · answered by a_ybarra03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you say that it is love, it may also be just physical attraction, you wait and see after some times it will just go off. It has happened with me.
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2006-10-19 08:32:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be. My husband and I were inseperable sense the day we met. Do you see yourself old and gray sitting next to this man? spoiling great grand kids.
2006-10-19 08:29:54 · answer #7 · answered by inchantedfriend 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be it! This is probably the part of you, you didn't know-falling in love easily.
Good luck and hope it lasts...
2006-10-19 08:35:07 · answer #8 · answered by asisi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because your relationship with him is sooo fresh so naturally you are so into him now.it could be infatuation too....but give yourself time girl...get to know each other better and you will be the better judge if he's your real love.
2006-10-19 08:32:37 · answer #9 · answered by pristine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is love.. it meant to be love from the moment you met him, it happens to every one.. you should be happy to havw him for 4 months now =)
2006-10-19 08:29:49 · answer #10 · answered by SimileyDaisy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you can't sleep... can't eat... can't do anything because you have to think about him, then yes, it is love. I you feel that he feels same about you, go for it, otherwise it might be danger...
*** with da best wishes ***
2006-10-19 08:32:16 · answer #11 · answered by S!mko R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋