I've been with my boyfriend for almost two years and things were great in the beginning. Now we rarely spend any time together, intimate or not!! We live together, split the bills, but all my feelings for him have diminished...so how do I tell him that without hurting his feelings??
2006-10-19 01:25:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's never easy and there is no way to tell him without hurting his feelings unless he feels the same way, then it would pretty much be a relief for him that you brought it up. The only thing you can do is to be honest with him, explain how you feel without putting any blames on him whatsoever. After which, move on with your life.
I would definitely agree that life is too short to spend it with someone who you no longer feel anything for.
2006-10-19 01:45:28 · answer #1 · answered by mich 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest now and don't drag it out. He may be feeling the same way and don't know what to say or do. either way, someone will feel the hurt so, sit down, put it on the table and talk about it. Your goal should be trying to part as friends. Waiting will only make the pain worse, and then again, if he feels the same way, maybe all will be well in the end.
don't wait, do it and move on with your life. Life is too short to be miserable.
2006-10-19 01:29:42 · answer #2 · answered by bigmikejones 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There probably isn't anyway to tell him without some hurt feelings. Best to bite the bullet and get on with your lives. No need or reason to sulk over a dead horse, bury it and move on. It will be best for both.
2006-10-19 01:28:31 · answer #3 · answered by plitsmay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all ask your self if you want to be with someone that does not make you happy in any way ,,, Im 24 years old but Im a very mature person for my age,,, and I think that you should leaved him and find true happines,,would'nt you like someone that makes you feel like a woman and wanted,,,, you should tell him that you need a break,, remember that is not about him but it all about you because if you are not happy then you cant make others happy,,,,,,,
2006-10-19 01:29:50 · answer #4 · answered by Airforcepink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just drop him hints.. but remember is best to be honest and tell the truth it will hurt him but it will hurt more if u hide it inside more, go on be brave and tell him
2006-10-19 01:27:51 · answer #5 · answered by SimileyDaisy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone is going to end up hurt.....you may as well tell him now than to wait til later.....it won't get any easier to tell him......trust me!!
2006-10-19 01:26:38 · answer #6 · answered by honey_bear_21_1999 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple- make up your mind , see into his eyes and share what you feel.
2006-10-19 01:28:27 · answer #7 · answered by sm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him what you just told us. Either way he will take it bad.
2006-10-19 01:27:05 · answer #8 · answered by bt30711 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him from your mind
2006-10-19 01:27:45 · answer #9 · answered by sanjay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
without hurting him is quite impossible unless he is thinking wat u r thinking now
all the best to you
2006-10-19 01:27:49 · answer #10 · answered by Western 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋