My ex of three months from summer of last year wasnt "ready for committment" but still texts me every week and more so in the last few months. Mostly saturday nights.And once or so during the week also. We never had sex so its not like he is totally using me. I agreed to see him last Saturday night and a had a few drinks, after a while I just got up and left the pub without telling him. I know it sounds awful.He never actually texts me to see if i want to go somewhere for a beer or whatever only when we maybe already out. I wonder would walking out on him Saturday night make him want me more or would he just forget about me after what i did. He did text and ring etc wondering where I had gone. You will think Im playing mind games but he does know i still have feelings for him and I just feel he wants to come and go as he wants. Should I just forget about this whole mess.
2006-10-19 01:09:02 · 13 answers · asked by sunny01 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes, i yhink u should forget about it, he's the one messing w/ur mind, making u want him more, u did good by leaving, let him go, don't call him nor text him, get somebody else
2006-10-19 01:15:17 · answer #1 · answered by aura v 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he does not want to commit , he is for sure running away of the situation and he sounds very childish to me , Yeap forget about this whole mess and sort out your life , talk to him one last time and tell him there is nothing going to happen by carrying on , cause at last you will ,in any which way be hurt , because you love him and he does not want to commit....Isn't it ?
Dont worry , true love will come to you,just wait and go with the flow .. All the best and please avoid being with such feelingless guys!
2006-10-19 01:14:05 · answer #2 · answered by Beautiful Snowwhite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds a bit childish to me. You should sit down with him and discuss what you both want but from the sounds of it, he just wants a convenient person to call when he's out at the weekend.
2006-10-19 01:10:43 · answer #3 · answered by claire 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mature couples talk things out. Sit him down. Tell him you have feelings for him but they're being ruined by his distance. Ask him, does he want you or not? If so, then give your all. If not, then walk. Life is too short for other people's insecurities.
2006-10-19 01:13:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont think that was very nice what you done. how would you like someone walking out on you!! if you wanted to go you could have least said, im going to go now. not just walk out!
i think you both dont know what you want, and until you do just be friends!
2006-10-19 01:15:54 · answer #5 · answered by Fader's Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That was a cold thing to do. You should not have just walked out on him. Even if you are just going out as a friend. That is not the propper thing to do. BOO to you.
2006-10-19 01:12:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he isnt ready for commitment, why is he still finding you?he text u saturday nights is it becos he's bored and looking for someone to party with?i think you're better off without him.
2006-10-19 01:15:15 · answer #7 · answered by pristine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"He texts me" and "I text him"... and so on and so on...
No wonder you don't know what each other is thinking... Toss the cell phones and have what they call "A face to face, heart to heart talk..." You'll be surprised what can come out of that...
2006-10-19 01:20:00 · answer #8 · answered by deakjone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he still cares. He did call to check on ya after you walked out on him. Most guys would cut their looses and pick up another chick that was at the bar.
2006-10-19 01:11:53 · answer #9 · answered by angel2005_2001 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You asked so I'm going to give you my answer.
You are both playing immature mind games.
Move on.
2006-10-19 01:13:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋