why seems like there's no good man for me to love.
please give me someone.
2006-10-19 01:06:32 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sadly, the truth is that is very hard to find a good, caring man. But married life is difficult even for two people who love each other, imagine how hard will be to live with somebody you don't love. Be patient and don't settle. Work on your career and the things that it will be hard to do after you are married and have kids. Good luck.
2006-10-19 01:14:09 · answer #1 · answered by elgil 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
Charis there are alot of girls facing the same problems and you don't have to get worried about getting married. The thing is when a girl finds a decent guy who she knows loves her alot but she doesn't ful fill the requirement or desire that suppose to be satisfied by the person than she just leave him. This happens most of the time. Try to compromise with a guy you like and always care for him so much because what a guy wants is someone close him caring and loving.
Don't feel sad about it because everything happens for a reason or maybe you did something wrong in the past that you are facing it right now. Just ask for forgiveness everything would be good. Just focus on one guy not so many at a same time. Trust me this will work.
P,S if you could not find anyone than I would be your bf. Happy.
take care
see ya
2006-10-19 01:33:21 · answer #2 · answered by waqas b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will find someone but it's not good to become fixated on finding a partner and getting married, as you will appear desperate and attract the wrong sort of guys who can't commit and will hurt you. I suspect this is already happening and this is why you say there's no good guys out there - there ARE, but you need to be the right person to attract them. Start to enjoy your won company and take up some new interests/hobbies and make your life worth living. Good men are attracted to a woman who is happy within herself and wants to share her happiness with someone. If you look to a man to make you happy and be everything to you you will only attract horrible, shallow men who you won't find long term happiness with. I'm nearly 28 and just been through a bad marriage for the sake of wanting love - I'm older and wiser now. I would like to marry again but I want to wait for the right person to come. Don't rush into a marriage or relationship for the sake of needing someone. That's a disaster in waiting. Take your time and be happy in the meantime.
2006-10-19 01:22:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your problem is nothing compared to mine. People say I am dumb and stupid and when the see me they point and giggle. If you have a chronic problem like that then there is nothing much that can be done. Now when they start pointing I just work up a big drool and they seem to get a big kick out of that.
Now let me tell you this, when I was 28 my first wife went off her rocker and upped and left. I was devastated and thought it was all over for me. Little did I know it had not even started yet and the best was yet to come. You have plenty of time to find what you are looking for, and it may be easier if you stop worrying about it so much. Get stupid like me, it helps. That way, nothing bothers you. Me present wife, who unfortunately has turned into a knife-wielding vicious Nun, keeps saying "What's wrong with you? Nothing bothers you." That's right. All this petty nonsense is of no account and of absolutely no significance. When things get out of hand I just drool; it seems to help a lot and drives her nuts.
You can't take things too seriously. If things seem to get out of hand, laugh at them, laugh at youself and drool, and before you know it everything is just dandy.
2006-10-19 01:31:22 · answer #4 · answered by Kokopelli 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
About 4 months ago, on a complete whim, I gave eHarmony a try. I had ZERO faith in this. I was tired of seeing the damn commercials and I wanted to prove old Doctor Warren wrong, that snobby bastard.
I'm going for my marriage license today with my 28 yr. old love.
2006-10-19 01:10:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never know when you will meet the right guy.I met my husband on a job interview,didnt find him appealing.I met him 2 years later while he was shopping at a department store andwe hooked up.Keep your mind and eyes open for nice guys,they are out there.
2006-10-19 01:09:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think the problem is not in your liking or some body else like you .
the problem is that we want , we have cetain parameters on which we are judging ever peole. and if you came alone a person who fitted in your paramenters then there is problem at your side u r not fitted in his para meters. never come to the conclusion be natural be honest to u, and i assure you that with all posive and negativethe person will like you as you are.
2006-10-19 01:15:12 · answer #7 · answered by VKS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will turn up. They always do especially when you aren't looking. I was not looking when I found my husband. Just be careful you deserve the best don't settle for someone just because you are lonely. Hang in there.
2006-10-19 01:10:18 · answer #8 · answered by elainecynthia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't sound so desperate my dear. Let marriage happen at the right time for you; in the meantime enjoy your single status - you'll miss it once you are married.
2006-10-19 01:26:18 · answer #9 · answered by Sofia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can relate. my best friend is 34 and shes still a virgin and has not had a boy friend. she's not bad looking too. like you,she wants a good man to love and to love her. what im trying to say here is, cheer up, you're not alone girl.
2006-10-19 01:16:51 · answer #10 · answered by shang1253 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋