Or do you think you should battle with them on your own. Sometimes if you tell someone you are dating that you get jealous or you are afraid he/she will leave you...they get "turned off". But at the same time you want to be honest and share how you are feeling so there is no fighting or silence between you.
2006-10-19 01:00:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, if I got to trust person well enough.
2006-10-19 01:02:14 · answer #1 · answered by bor_rabnud 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in your boat about 3 weeks ago bro. You have to feel her out. Spend time and make your connection solid first. Then tell her how you feel. Don't give her the full side of it at first. But if you word it correctly, in a protective and appreciate-my-lady manner (not the "She's MINE!" psycho way) then she'll appreciate it and allow you to open up a little more. These days women spend more time worrying about their men cheating then anything else. (( just take a look around this forum )) She'll be flattered by your commitment and protective manner. Just don't let your own insecurities blind you to how faithful she is. Some men don't know when to trust and they stifle their women worrying if they're cheating. And if there's one thing that makes a girl want to cheat is a man who always accuses her of it. (men as well) Good luck.
2006-10-19 01:07:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I percentage no longer something of a personal nature until eventually this is something that really affected me and it shows in my face, cruel jibes made by technique of strangers about my visual attraction as an get mutually. except that i'm Mr satisfied right here for relaxing situations without bringing each and every man or woman else down with my crap, this is all a facade interior i'm screaming.
2016-12-05 00:03:31 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I share all my insecurities with my boyfriend and he shares all his with me. If he leaves you for sharing them then he is an a** and you need someone better than that. My boyfriend always tells me that we shouldn't keep things from each other. If he really loved you he would understand your insicurities.
2006-10-19 01:05:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try looking to see if there is actually a problem or whether your being insecure, then you should be able to decide whats best to do, also talking to a friend can reassure you as they have an outsider perspective...
2006-10-19 01:06:55 · answer #5 · answered by hjo~~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just though the best thing is to do, is before I get into a realtionship i got to trust myself that no matter what happens i must have to tell my partner something that bothers me even is trust or not, because otherwise he will find out himself..
2006-10-19 01:10:16 · answer #6 · answered by SimileyDaisy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do sometimes share my insecurities with someone I'm dating, but it doesn't always work. Sometimes they use them against you when you break up
2006-10-19 01:03:20 · answer #7 · answered by Mary Smith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I bet they can tell what the insecurities are without it having to be said. So probably just work on it.
2006-10-19 01:02:12 · answer #8 · answered by *babydoll* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on the guy.......if u feel that u need to tell him , then do so without afraid to lose him.....everyone needs something from a relationship......if he's not giving u enough, then u gotta go....don't make your life miserable....there're still many out there waiting for u....
2006-10-19 01:03:16 · answer #9 · answered by Marijuana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest --- trust them so you dont need to be jealous
2006-10-19 01:03:39 · answer #10 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋