I've gone out with this guy a bunch of times, sometimes in groups but mostly just the two of us. But he hasn't made a single move to show he's interested, except to keep spending time with me. We go out at least once a week. We have tons in common and have a great time, but he hasn't done anything. Is his gay or just not interested? Can i just ask him?
2006-10-19 00:59:18 · 21 answers · asked by Annneeee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This does not mean he is gay. Sounds like he is just respectful. If it is meant to be more, it will be in due time. Dont push the issue and enjoy the relationship for what it is at this time.
2006-10-19 01:05:35 · answer #1 · answered by classy&sassy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is shy, or he is trying to be respectful...have you tried to make a move on him? If you like him and are enjoying the prospect of this turning into a fufilling relationship I dont think I would ask him if he were gay.
2006-10-19 08:01:21 · answer #2 · answered by BiancaVee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well don't just assume that. he may or may not be but I wouldn't ask unless you guys were very good friends: you don't want to end your friendship. If he is then just accept it. Maybe he is just nervous/shy and not like other guys! Just take it slow and continue to hang out with him.
2006-10-19 08:03:57 · answer #3 · answered by ღღღ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to come right out and ask him. If he's offended, too bad. If he doesn't want to see you anymore, good riddance. If he denies it, apologize and move on. If he acknowledges that he is, decide on whether or not to continue the relationship and move forward.
2006-10-19 08:12:45 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,there's nothing wrong with him just being friendly.Maybe he just wants to be your friend.Ä°f you ask him,that will make things awkward.Don't ask,but maybe a few questions of yours could answer it all.Give it some time and try to figure the guy out.Ä°f he's gay,well,hallelujah!
2006-10-19 08:04:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't ask him if he's gay straight out. You could really upset him! Maybe he's a gentleman? Maybe he just wants to be friends? You could ask him casually if he's seeing anyone?
2006-10-19 08:02:42 · answer #6 · answered by claire 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is a respectful young man with high moral integrity. You should count your blessings instead of jumping to conclusions about his sexuality.
2006-10-19 08:07:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know there are some decent guys out there that want a woman for more than sex. That doesn't make him gay.
2006-10-19 08:03:03 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you would be more comfortable with someone who just wanted you for sex. Maybe this guy could just be a, respectful, moral, well adjusted, young gentleman.
2006-10-19 08:12:17 · answer #9 · answered by beebee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask him out! just casual ask him what his doing on the weekend and ask him does he want to go movies and slowly tell him you liked him, maybe his shy
2006-10-19 08:01:36 · answer #10 · answered by SimileyDaisy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋