Every girl I meet, I just want to have a good time with. Not long after I start sensing jealousy, and other symptoms of "we have to talk about marriage soon" coming from her. I hate that! It turns me off.
What do I say to a girl if all I want is for us to have a good time together, not get jealous, not try to control one another, NO RELATIONSHIPS! Those boundaries are way to tight.
2006-10-19 00:56:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Letting her know upfront doesn't fix the problem. It only patches it for a week or two, after that they again think that they can get all girlfriendie
2006-10-19 01:01:20 · update #1
Also : F*ck buddy is good, but how do you say to someone "Lets just be f...uck buddies"
2006-10-19 01:03:13 · update #2
Steph y, that sounds sexy!
But its a sin! Maybe thats why its even sexier! :)))
2006-10-19 01:30:21 · update #3
you want to f**k
2006-10-19 02:08:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a lot of girls out there that want to just have exactly what you are looking for...First of all, you need to find these girls, and once you do, you wont even have to mention that its just for sex.
If you're interested in someone, as **** buddies of course, just tell them that you are totally not into relationships at the moment and or in the near future, also that you just want to have a good time and that means have loads of awesome sex!
You have to realize that women often get their feelings mixed in with sex, thus with the guy they are sleeping with, so you should keep your eyes open for this, but be open and honest with her if and when she does, that its not what you are looking for.
Also, the only thing that you can possibly do is limit conversation and time together in a very sexual way...this way, they should and will get the idea.
2006-10-19 08:43:06 · answer #2 · answered by Patience 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her your intentions up front. If she ends up wanting more in the long run then at least you didn't lead her on. You must be telling her what you think she wants to hear in order to get her in bed or she wouldn't be talking about marriage so quickly.
Or, go to a bar/club pick the drunkest hottest girl there. You'll be doing the morning walk of shame before you know it!
2006-10-19 07:59:18 · answer #3 · answered by Savez Agir 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think maybe you have a commitment phobia......That being said, if you're just looking to use a girl for sex it shouldn't be that hard to find one willing to give it to ya....there are plenty of sl.uts out there...just watch out for diseases and such! I will say though, there is nothing like having a committed partner to share all of my sexual desires with. He does anything and everything with, to, and for me. And I don't have to worry about diseases or psycho stalker types....Enjoy yourself, but be up front. Females are very emotional creatures and if you have no plans on sticking around even for a short while then you need to make sure she understands all of this up front. Be safe.
2006-10-19 08:02:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is gonna sound so bad, but oh well.. I think you should go for married women..lol... sorry its true. i was married and got bored and just wanted a little fun on the side. plus we can cant call you or crash poker night to make sure no other girls are there..lol married women have to keep stuff quiet.. meaning you get yours she gets hers and you go back to your "normal" lives after... PLUS most married women are more likely to be kinky b/c we want to do stuff our boring husbands wont do.. and we want to keep the person that's pleasing us happy.. so we will do alot of "favors"
2006-10-19 08:08:47 · answer #5 · answered by Steph y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should make your intentions known before you have sex with them the first time! That avoids any misunderstanding later on.
2006-10-19 07:59:20 · answer #6 · answered by rebecca_sld 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should tell them straight from the start that you dont want a serious relationship, never build up their hopes...
2006-10-19 08:00:13 · answer #7 · answered by hjo~~ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to clubs, whatever and get the craziest, care-free, 'loosest', flirtatious girl there.
2006-10-19 08:18:45 · answer #8 · answered by Banana Pie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need a f*ck buddy not a girlfriend
2006-10-19 07:58:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
How much?
2006-10-19 07:57:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋