2006-10-19 00:50:01 · 12 answers · asked by sk001_h8r 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
no u dont hate ur life u just hate a bad thing what happent in ur life and made u hurt.or u hate some one hwo hurt u.........life its soooo beautiful and short and no matter what problems u have dont let them upset u.everybody have problems but depends how we look.im sure u'll find the power to go on and im sure u will be ok.just think about ur important
2006-10-19 00:56:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, u r right , u cannot change the fact that u live it, but you have the power to change it. Its important to ask yourself is - do i want to change it?. You must have heard - where there is a will, there is a way.
If you want to change the way your life looks to you at the moment, you will have to change it yourself. But what is your real Q? you live a life u dont like, so how would you like it to be? Remember nothing lasts forevre, nothing at all. Things happen in our lives for a reason, and the reason being - some learning. we learn, we grow and we move on. Your life is the most important thing than anything else in this whole world. Love it, some dissappointments are just way of life, but not the end of life. You are alive so you can make changes. Think of the things that make you happy. Start with something very small, could be even a good luxury bath if you please, any thing at all.
The thing is if you find yourself in a situation where nothing is in your hands, then just let it be. But dont waste your time and energy thinking about it, especially if brings you unhappiness. Focus on other things. Distract yourself.
Life is beautiful. we all go through such feeling sometimes, it is part of our growing up and learning process. What have you learned from this situation or situations?
2006-10-19 08:07:34 · answer #2 · answered by JJJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one person has the " perfect life"!! What you have to do is be an individual, look at the positives, and make them the center focus for you. YOU control you life and what others think of you. All to often we worry about all the negatives we see in ourselves, and forget, others do see the good side or best parts, so, why not concentrate on them???
If you sit on your " do nothing", and complain about " Your Nothing Life", the days are gonna go on by and " NOTHING" will happen positive in your life and you will be miserable. Besides, there are people out there, who whether you know it or not, are watching you. You touch peoples lives so why not try to put a positive spin on your life, and help someone else along the way???
Good luck.
2006-10-19 07:55:09 · answer #3 · answered by bigmikejones 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can change your conditions and your attitude about your life. Know that you are in control of your own happiness and that you can make the steps you need to change what is making you unhappy about your life. Start by journaling or outlining what are the specific things that make you unhappy and then spend some time thinking of how you can change your attitute about the situation or change the situation itself. Talk to your friends about it or talk to a trained professional to get an outside perspective. Know that everything will be ok.
2006-10-19 07:55:08 · answer #4 · answered by red_shoes_lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I seem to have the same problem. Mine is all about providing for myself. Otherwise, I think I could live a pretty good life. I think I will try to get a sugar daddy to take care of me.
2006-10-19 07:54:11 · answer #5 · answered by scrapper723 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
look around.every 1 is in problems.
if u r living it live it well.
u still are more blessed than so many of the people.
2006-10-19 07:52:29 · answer #6 · answered by Excellent E 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just get on with your life. find new hobbies and friend. Try and make a fresh start. feel lucky to be alive. attempt to be an optimist. :)
2006-10-19 07:52:45 · answer #7 · answered by WT 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
think positive in every situation......when u feel bad, think that u're more fortunate than a lot of people in this world...at least, u don't have to starve, u have clothes,etc.....n' someone to solve your problem through the net....lol......unless, u're ready for a lifestyle makeover......best of luck!!!
2006-10-19 07:53:29 · answer #8 · answered by Marijuana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
face up to the challenge and solve your problems. i have the same thoughts sometimes, but your family and/or friends love you and are willling to help....just ask!
2006-10-19 07:52:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
so, what is it that you hate? I suggest you try to get back to reality, because you sound very depressed for some reason. please cheer up!!
2006-10-19 08:07:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋