how can i make him feel at ease around me?? how can i make him feel himself around me?????
please help!!!
thanks
melissa
2006-10-19 00:38:59 · 12 answers · asked by melissa renston 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he is feeling a bit insecure. i am very outgoing but it happens to the best of us sometimes. just let jhim know you like him--a lot and i am sure he will loosen up a bit
2006-10-19 00:41:42 · answer #1 · answered by deldarko1977 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry he will learn to adjust later on. My ex used to be awkward. Ours was the first relationship he had. He is self-conscious as to what others might think if he walks around, hold hands or just be around a female. He must be conservative. That's what I thought. The next time I knew, he was already making his thing with women. Guess what, he ended up marrying someone else. Practice was just what he needed then.
2006-10-19 07:46:40 · answer #2 · answered by onlyme_6000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes some time for a guy to feel comfortable around you. It took me about two weeks or more to finally feel at ease around my guy. Just sweet talk him, call him petty names (baby, honey, etc.) tell him you love him, if you guys are already going together. Sometimes guys are just nervous around us because they havent gotten used to you. Sorry if that sounded weird. Just try spending more time with him in places where he's comfortable, (his house, or something) so he wont be afraid to be himself. Since he's in his own home.
If you don't see any improvement in a few days or weeks, maybe you should have a little talk to him about what's going on.
2006-10-19 07:43:37 · answer #3 · answered by xxxpinkslipxx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People act out from nervousness and insecurity. Take some long walks together. Learn to talk as adults. Help him get his feelings out. he will calm down and you will be happier.
2006-10-19 07:41:33 · answer #4 · answered by Isis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is feeling himself around you. Maybe this is as good as it gets. If you already feel the need to change him you are in trouble.
2006-10-19 07:45:37 · answer #5 · answered by beebee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how to act?? What do you mean!
Isn't he your boyfriend, so how come isn't he at ease around you? Do you let him? Do you ever put him down? Does he like your friends?
well, talk to him to see what's wrong1
2006-10-19 07:43:04 · answer #6 · answered by Ana GG 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You tell him that he has come from 18th centuary. Now is the time of freedom and flirt. Hey guy, come on I will teach you the purpose of lovely life.
2006-10-19 07:46:01 · answer #7 · answered by thinkpose 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You assume his behavior means he is ill at ease when it may not be that at all. If you really like him, accept him as is. If you can't do that then you may as well look elsewhere.
2006-10-19 07:43:03 · answer #8 · answered by coastmunky 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess he's new at this, being around girls. Give him time and do things to build his confidence. He'll come around.
2006-10-19 07:42:55 · answer #9 · answered by Cal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just don't flirt around,,,
it'll make him more nervous,,
i am shy around girls too,,
and girls flirting around makes me more nervous,
try introducing him to your girl friends and do things he loves to do..
usually, it works,,,
2006-10-19 07:41:31 · answer #10 · answered by -_- 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋