she always say the sex is good but never climax. it lasts on an average of 2hrs not including fourplay. what am i doing wrong?
2006-10-19 00:20:26 · 10 answers · asked by hardworkur84 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
use the ribbed or heated condoms
2006-10-19 00:22:29 · answer #1 · answered by sharaziuk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not doing anything wrong. You do know that not all women are able to orgasm, right?
"Sex research has shown that about 95 percent of men nearly always have orgasm from intercourse while only about 25 percent to 30 percent of women do. Another 30-some-odd percent of women never have orgasm from intercourse, and a middle 30 percent to 40 percent report having them sometimes."
If she's trying too hard to climax, that may be a problem too. Kinda like stage fright. But still, whether she orgasms or not, the sex is probably still good and that's truly what matters.
2006-10-19 00:25:22 · answer #2 · answered by lena5523 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't take it personally yet. She may have some history you do not know, and she may simply not wish to give herself over completely yet. Ask her. There may be underlying issues you do not know. Don't ask her if it was good with a great smile on your face, just after...
One day, calmly, tell her "I feel like I would like to please you more and lead you to a climax. What could I do to get you there?"
Of course it may be you don't like the answer, and maybe you're just taking so long to get to the cliffedge that she kinda looses the plot a few times if you get my meaning.
2006-10-19 00:25:47 · answer #3 · answered by Sugar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you making sure to play with her clit? Try some sex toys (if you're into that) or try some elexa (lube for girls that goes on the clit not internal lube though). It intensifies things and maybe that will help.
2006-10-19 00:23:33 · answer #4 · answered by Ashley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I honestly don't know what you're doing wrong, you might be doing everything right, and it's just her. But here are some websites that might give you new ideas to spice things up:
www.sexinfo101.com or askmen.com
Hope I helped some :)
2006-10-19 00:33:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
who cares shes a rip off
2006-10-19 00:23:02 · answer #6 · answered by Kelse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not hitting at right moment.
2006-10-19 00:23:09 · answer #7 · answered by thinkpose 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just relax and give her more time...
2006-10-19 00:28:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
clit. stay on it and she will either be there or squirm away
2006-10-19 00:23:25 · answer #9 · answered by blue_eyed_southernman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have me over
2006-10-19 00:22:10 · answer #10 · answered by LENNON3804 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋