what do you honestly feel is the criteria for a good husband?
2006-10-18 23:47:05 · 14 answers · asked by Submission 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Well I have the perfect husband so I just expect him to keep doing what he is doing! :) We follow Allah and our prophet's teachings (PBUH)
0- Be thankful to God because he is married and happy LOL
1- Ensure a decent standard of living for Wife and children
2- Throw out the trash
3- Lift the heavy things
4- Deal with his wife justly in all matters (regarding the kids, management of the house, Sex, Financial matters, etc)
5- Husband as much as the wife should be knowledgeable in religious matters to educate their kids.
6- He must never ever divulge the secrets of the household and those of the married couple
7- Complete trust in his wife
8- He must be patient and forgiving. He must exercise patience and be prepared to listen to her advice in every situation.
9- Protect the honor of his wife and be truthful at all times.
10- The wife must be treated as the queen of the house!
11- He must not dwell on what he dislikes in his wife, but on what he likes.
12- Not abuse his wife (verbally or physically) A wife must be treated as a rose
13- Care for the children and their up bringing and support his wife in this manner
14- Jointly setup rules for the children and the overall house management.
15- He must treat her generously at all times.
16- He must respect her and pay attention to her needs so that she will respect him and pay attention to his.
17- Keep his promises
18- Attributes: Pious, Truthful, good leader, good suporter, Just, Fair, Love his children, love his wife, kind, considerate, chaste, good morals, Trustworthy, reliable, avoids quarrelling, avoids beating, cleanliness habits, strength in mind and will, gentle, generous, loving, Great sense of humor, resonable, intelligent,serious when needed.
I really believe that a good husband is a precious Gem and that a good wife is as well.
In Islam we have very defined roles we are told marry because your wife, husband is the other half of your religion. We have examples on how to resolve issues and lots and lots of advice LOL. My list is not complete, but hopefully it encompasses some of my thoughts regarding my expectation from my husband.
2006-10-18 23:56:25 · answer #1 · answered by . 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Taqwa (I am not sure if there is an English word that suits this...it means to be aware/in awe/fear of God).
Honesty,
kindness,
mercy,
faith,
humbleness,
and humility before God.
Being strong enough to be the spiritual leader of the family (ie help his children and wife to reach their goals, and learn more) but wise and caring enough to know when to sit back and observe.
Knowing that literally everything is in the Hands of God. From what to eat for dinner or his car working or not, to the number of children he has and the piety of his wife.... Everything he has in this world is thanks to God.
:)
2006-10-19 00:14:30 · answer #2 · answered by ms_moonlight1977 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has to have a great sense of humour.
Hes gentle, caring,patient and resilient.
Adores his kids like anything. Makes me feel comfortable, loves me for who I am, and is always a man I am proud to be married with.
And yes, he should believe in One God and have unbending morals when it comes to certain things.
^^
2006-10-18 23:53:44 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best criteria for a husband in my eyes is if he follows the deen of Allah. I don't think that anything else matters.
2006-10-18 23:57:13 · answer #4 · answered by Vaneeza 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course, the first thing is love, but to obtain it you have to have trust, honesty, and respect. I am so blessed that I have all of these in my husband!
2006-10-19 00:34:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I expect him to love his wife as Christ loves the church, all else will follow.This is a female answering not male, just using his site.
2006-10-19 00:40:53 · answer #6 · answered by CJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2017-02-14 20:29:51 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respect, honesty, love, a good job, a good education, manners, and wanting a family.
Wow. I just described my dad without even realizing it.
2006-10-18 23:55:15 · answer #9 · answered by novagirl117 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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