Im MADLY DEEPLY in LOVE.I started this relationship half-heartedly and meesed around but me girl got herself organised for me after a few mounths got a job and things started to change.I started to have the bst relationship every we lost our innocence to each ather..9 mounths down the line the one mistake i made appeard and my girl break up with me.........No she is hear but we still meet hold each ather cry kiss fight then she leaves....Question...Do i let her go and find sameone else and stop hearing both of us cause she will never trust me again...Or do i fight for her with all my heart..,
Problems:-She is indian im coloured
I did samthing like this to her befor,we were high school sweet hearts ..i didnt know better
She not allowed to have a boyfriend thats not her race,do i carry on hiding or cut my lossers
She hasnt been with alot of guys,sould i let her go be for i ask her back,cause i wanna marry her
This is my life please help
thank you
2006-10-18 23:08:46 · 10 answers · asked by heath 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Conflicts may arise at any point of the relationship. If you decide to be with her, you have to promise to yourself to love her unconditionally. If its not allowed in her culture to marry someone not from their race, you have two choices go against it or follow it. This matter can only be decided by her. But if she chooses you, you have to stick with her through thick and thin. Don't fight, be calm even if she's not, because you were the one who sinned. Just tell her how you feel. Goodluck!
2006-10-18 23:20:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen. I really really don't think her being an Indian and you being colored is not a great deal. Maybe to her parents, who has the old ideas or some weird philosopby or something.
Just do everything you can to persuade the people against the love. They will not approve the marriage or love at first, more you spend time talking to them, more they will be mellowed down.
At the current day's society, I think it is not such a problem.
Just try, try and try to persuade the people, or be confident on yourself.
2006-10-18 23:46:39 · answer #2 · answered by davegesprek 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me U r feelin' this girl. U messed up, thats normal, as guys we do that a lot. If U love her like I think U do, go get her.
Her race, thats another thing. If you guys want to go all the way, go ahead. There will be resistance from pipo around you, but hey! U will be together.
Go get your girl my bro.
2006-10-18 23:19:54 · answer #3 · answered by curtis c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love her so much and want to marry her then why the other girl? Sound to me that she is on the right track and needs to continue with the dumping. Dude, you need to move on and let this poor girl have a good life with someone who cares for her.
2006-10-18 23:16:36 · answer #4 · answered by Captain Comment 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It doesn't matter if she' Indian or what nationality you are sometimes they have a discrimination w/ nationalities, but who cares? You're the one who's in love. if you do really love her, fight for her. She's your happiness and you do love her and why not fight for her. Good luck!
2006-10-18 23:20:18 · answer #5 · answered by housewife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is the foundation of love. You have to win her trust if you really love her.
2006-10-18 23:17:28 · answer #6 · answered by thinkpose 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES GO N PROPOSE HER.indian girls r very soft and understanding.and don't break her heart in future.
GOOD LUCK.
2006-10-18 23:16:27 · answer #7 · answered by cutey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU TRULY LOVE THE GIRL FIGHT FOR HER
FORGET RACE THAT'S NOT IMPORTANT
AND STOP BEING SO STUPID, SHE LOVES YOU SHE DOESN'T WANT TO BE HURT ANYMORE''
GOOD LUCK
2006-10-18 23:20:24 · answer #8 · answered by datcreekgurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not just a FULL but a tosser too x
2006-10-18 23:13:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
yeah u are
2006-10-18 23:19:42 · answer #10 · answered by PETE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋