should i meet a guy who i talk at messenger?he lives 20 minutes far away from my home.am 22 and he is 23 . i saw pics of him hee put me camera too.. he says he likes my character he is good boy too.he is not a guy who goes at clubs and flirt.he works and study. i talk with him 6 months but i didnt met him besides he tells me every weekend to go at cinema!!. i love him but i dont think that is very nice to get to know him..i think am gonna meet him at christmas lol as a christmas gift loll!!!
2006-10-18 23:07:54 · 16 answers · asked by Lady Santa 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
HOW!!! Can you love someone you've never met?? I SUGGEST THAT, WHEN YOU DO MEET HIM, MAKE SURE IT'S IN A PUBLIC PLACE, AND THERE ARE PEOPLE AROUND....
2006-10-18 23:27:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
MARIA! When everyone within the arena is basically giving you the same advice take heed , be careful, (in some cultures it is called walking on the mind) The advice you are being given is the best there is and it is coming from people who care. When a young man such as Link tells you to do this for your safety, as he is doing the same for his on well-being, please listen. Just as women know other women better than men, rest assured that men know other men better than most women. For now, listen to your advisers, you asked their opinions so listen with your head and if this guy turns out to be a winner then listen to your HEART! Take a friend with you and if he has driven have him or her excuse themselves to see if you can get his tag#. Maybe you'll be sure about the lots of love for Xmas if you try to find out how legitimate he is by Thanksgiving. If he isn't what you expected you'll have a lot of yahoo friends to be Thankful for @ Thanksgiving and Xmas, plus you will have been given the greatest gift of experience for your next encounter and you will be alive and well... so your first precious gift of the season has come from the hearts of some of your concerned and caring Yahoo Answerer's. Good Luck! reiki56 Maria that is truly LOL!
2006-10-19 09:00:06 · answer #2 · answered by reiki56 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you dont come across as a 22 year old , with the way you worded this question , if you plan to meet this person , try to have a friend be with you just for your own protection , and well being , there are alot of creeps and pervs out there , and how can you possibly say you love him , you dont evan know him , that is so absurd ,
but anyway , good luck , it may turn out you can fall in love after awhile!
Be VERY CAREFUL OF INTERNET MEETINGS!
TY : ) LB
2006-10-19 06:17:49 · answer #3 · answered by Lois B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL xmas gift - nice! :o)
be safe go where there are people!
go to the cinema then go for a meal, so if you have an awkward silence you can talk about the film you have just watched.
Dont meet in a place that dont have alot of people around.
Be careful. Have fun :o)
2006-10-19 06:15:50 · answer #4 · answered by Fader's Girl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with meeting in person someone you have met online (I'm planning on doing it myself this January, Lord willing), but you have to be very careful about it. Take a trusted friend with you, and a cell phone. Meet in a public place, and don't be alone with him on the first meeting. And make sure at least one other person (not with you) knows where you are going and what you are doing. You may even have them call your cell phone at some point to check on you when you are meeting him. Encourage him to do these same things, so you will both be on equal terms, and so he knows that it isn't that you don't trust him, but that this is just the smart thing to do.
The girl I'm planning to meet this January has become my best friend on Earth, and I trust her with my life. But I still believe it is smart to take these precautions, for wisdom's sake, and I intend to. And she totally agrees with me.
P.S.~ You might want to work on your grammer, it was a bit hard to understand parts of your question the way you worded it. No offense, just making a suggestion.
2006-10-19 06:21:32 · answer #5 · answered by The Link 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should meet him if you like him but just make sure you meet him in public & never give out your home address unless you feel comfortable with him.I met a guy from the internet recently & he rang me everyday sometimes a few times a day.We went out & had a nice time & then I invited him back to my place as he seemed like a nice genuine guy,now he is just trying to ignore me & not answer my texts.So please be careful & don't get duped like I did.
Goodluck in whatever you choose to do
2006-10-19 06:25:47 · answer #6 · answered by cowboys4lee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you do meet him i would meet him in a mall or some place busy at least the first 2 or 3 times so you can really see how he is people say anything on the computer just to get what they want ...be safe and carfull ....good luck
2006-10-19 06:12:10 · answer #7 · answered by dogfaceboy626 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your crazy, where did you get your facts? from what he told you. I have a bridge that I will give you if you just come meet me. Does that make any sense to you? and pictures, I can put any picture I want you to see on your computer. Your looking for trouble if you go through with this.
2006-10-19 06:12:24 · answer #8 · answered by Captain Comment 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go with a friend when you meet him. You'll be safer that way. Just because he may seem nice on camera, doesn't mean he'll be nice in person. Good luck!
2006-10-19 06:12:07 · answer #9 · answered by rellimztik_arual 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK, so meet him at Christmas like you said you were going to do???? Just becareful.
2006-10-19 06:09:23 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋