hi there last night we friends were sitting together have discussion about different things. one guys raise a question that according to sex defination in islam sex is done when P*** enters in V****. but the question arise over here that its mean we allowed to have oral sex then.
please ppl answer this as we friends didnt find any resourse& final answer that could help us.
2006-10-18 22:48:12 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
really appreciate ppl who answer this question as in my opinion this is a question very important for the young ppl & teenagers especially who are living in UK & other sex free society.
so i will really appreciate if more ppl answer this question and i m really looking forward to some kind of answer from any scholar.
2006-10-18 23:58:03 · update #1
sexual relationships of any sort -- between 2 STRANGERS without the consent of marraige is forbidden. it is not only in Islam but all religions command that. also it is against ethics and morals of societies too. but i feel it is upto an individual -- in Islam.
Islam in itself does not command or order an individual. Islam has given Qu'ran -- the Critereon to judge between right & wrong and it has left the decision upto a individual itself -- to decide his/her own Faith/fate. Islam only gives one a guideline, it is upto a Will of an individual to follow it or not.
anyways someone elses personal business should not be my concern.
2006-10-18 23:04:43 · answer #1 · answered by marissa 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Perhaps yes. But in islam we (husband and wife) are allowed to have sxx. What's the problem? And it does not mean to have oral sxx for unmarried couple is allowed. Islam teaches strict ethic related to holiness if you learn its truth.
2006-10-19 05:59:46 · answer #2 · answered by The Mask 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
So, as I suspected, allah is far more concerned with the fact that 2 people might be holding hands than that hundreds of his followers are killing people all over the globe, for no reason other than wanting them to believe in their particular superstition.
Sounds pretty much the same as the jewish/xtian god - main interests, his collection of foreskins, genocide in the form of killing off ALL Amalekites - men, women and children alike, cooking and food preparation techniques. etc.
Much more important than teaching morals and ethics appropriate to an over populated planet in the 21st century, after all.
2006-10-19 06:34:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
sex does not mean only intercorse it means every thing touching even looking and dirty talkting
ISLAM prohibits all that if you really want to have sex than why not your own wife if you want to touch someone touch your wife and takl to her and have sex anytime you want
and oral sex is a wast of time why not utilize that time by helping other
2006-10-19 05:59:15 · answer #4 · answered by sunny k 2 · 5⤊ 1⤋
First you should look at the etiquettes of intimate relations:
http://islamqa.com/index.php?ref=5560&ln=eng&txt=anal%20sex
Nopw about rulings of intercourse, and its type
Does anal intercourse cancel the marriage contract?
http://islamqa.com/index.php?ref=6792&ln=eng&txt=intercourse
Here is an issue having intercourse in the back passage:
http://islamqa.com/index.php?ref=14394&ln=eng&txt=intercourse
Is there any expiation for having intercourse with a woman in her back passage?
http://islamqa.com/index.php?ref=52803&ln=eng&txt=intercourse
Inserting fingers into the back passage
http://islamqa.com/index.php?ref=40520&ln=eng&txt=intercourse
I hope that helps :D Feel free to ask more questions
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to see if they already have the answer to your question!
2006-10-19 10:41:39 · answer #5 · answered by Mr Stick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex before marriage is prohibited even with hugging, kissing or just hold a hand of man with girl. It called haram. If you commit you get sin.
2006-10-19 05:58:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
i think ppl might be afraid to answer cuz u will know too much of them :).... i personally am not married so i cannot help you. however, at my local library i saw an islamic sex education book. you should see if there is anything like that at a library in your area. and possibly if you are actually interested in learning about islam and islamic law... you could speak very POLITELY and ask someone at your local mosque if they have any books like this
2006-10-19 05:54:05 · answer #7 · answered by Submission 3 · 3⤊ 5⤋
- premariatal sex : forbiddene
- Vaginal sex : allowed
- Anal sex : Forbidden
- Oral sex : debated.
2006-10-19 06:08:11 · answer #8 · answered by Kimo 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
AS YOU WRITE THERE .. A P*** AND A V**** IS NECESSARY TO DO SEX ...
NO OTHER THINGS ... MOUTH OR ANU* ARE NOT SEXUAL ORGANS ... SO IF YOU USED ONE OF THESE TWO , THE RELATION WILL NOT BE CONSIDERED AS A SEXUAL RELATION ...
ISLAM DEFINITION FOR SEX IS RELATED WITH BABIES .. A WOMAN GET PREGNANT I MEAN ..
2006-10-19 06:04:51 · answer #9 · answered by u&me 3 · 0⤊ 4⤋
Former President Clinton's opinion was that this did not count as sex
2006-10-19 05:53:49 · answer #10 · answered by SteveT 7 · 1⤊ 5⤋