hey frnds..pls save my life!!!my bf is a bit weird!we cannot understand each others at times...n we are totally d opposite of each other...n we generally fight over things(tho its hrd 2 fyt wid each odr so generally we make up after every fyt)but den he seems so insensitive at times..i CANNOT UNDERSTAND his behavior at times..n i thnk i m not his priority!
2006-10-18 22:28:37 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that sounds like my relationship. we fight about stupid things but then make up after the fight is over. i would say that you to are actually meant to be at this moment. Couples who have everything in common would get annoyed of each other right away in the relationship. Couples without barely anything in common last along time. it might sound weird but it is the truth. me and my bf now to be fiance have no thing in common and weve been together for a little over 2 years now. sweetie you are his priority no matter what it seems like. he would jump in front of a moving car to save your life. just think about how that could make you feel. give him the chance. if you think you can live and continue a relationship with someone who is really not like you and you guys fight a lot keep him. if you dont like that type of relationship dump him and try to find someone you think you may like a lot better
2006-10-18 22:42:50 · answer #1 · answered by Stephanie D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, all boyfriends are not like yours cuz i think in a True relationship there wont be any misunderstanding or fights rather than caring, loving and understanding for each other.
2006-10-19 09:52:58 · answer #2 · answered by deathly_eyes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Generally, most couples fight, but it seems your boyfriend has to leave his youth and become a Man, so he understands how to treat you like a woman...though, you will probably also need to be more mature too.
The fact is, you cannot change Men to be exactly what you want them to be. So, if you are not happy with how he is - tell him. It's up to him if he wants to change.
2006-10-19 05:33:06 · answer #3 · answered by byrne4u2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well me nad my gf would have fights over simple things I dodge the issue he wants to 'Talk it out' in fact we had a pattern every four day we would have an argument and make up two days later. well we finally got through that akward stage and are now happy with teh occasional disagreemetn be strong girl
2006-10-19 05:38:55 · answer #4 · answered by samydan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They say opposites attracts. We will never understand men, even if we try it will not make sence to us. When you have a argument again and you make up, just leave him alone. do your own thing. Do to him what he's doing to you then you will see hes reaction. They think they can use and abuse us but when we do that to them there attitude changes. Just try it.
2006-10-19 05:38:53 · answer #5 · answered by Lady_Y 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hai,
Don't think so. Before said that he never understand you and your feeling, think about at howmany times you try to understand his feeling. Firstly you said that both of you are opposite of each other. You know one think Opposite poles are attracted(science prooves). you just give him what you are expected from him. I am sure you will get what yo want.
2006-10-19 06:30:04 · answer #6 · answered by Santhoshkumar.S k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a typical scenario. It is OK as long as you make up after each fight. When it stops happening regularly...... consider it as a danger sign.
2006-10-19 05:47:36 · answer #7 · answered by Samir Mehta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should leave him and find a new one who can understand you and will not fight with you
Find someone who will not be your opposite but like you,
All the best
2006-10-19 05:35:17 · answer #8 · answered by apurva o 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hope u would have mentioned how u 2 r opposites.if its something that can be solved talk to him-communication is the best tool.
2006-10-19 05:36:25 · answer #9 · answered by IKNOWNO 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
drop him dont try to understand him its not worth it ..... and second sounds like you and him shouldn't be going out in the first place....
2006-10-19 05:36:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋