2006-10-18 22:11:56 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Other - Health
Touchy question - if you tell your friend and he doesn't believe you, then you've lost your friend. If you don't tell your friend and he finds out that you knew, then you lose your friend.
My suggestion is to be more alert and aware of signs that she might be giving him that he doesn't see - for example - unexplained absenses - question him about where she is and why she is spending so much time gone, etc. You could take your friend to a place where he might catch her in the act. Just subtly drop hints and put the idea in his mind and when he starts questioning it, then start trying to convince him of it. I think you would be asking for trouble by just telling him what you saw - that 's my 2 cents worth. Good Luck!
2006-10-18 22:18:32 · answer #1 · answered by Christy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends on your friendship. If your friendship is just casual one, better keep away and act as if nothing has happened. However, if your friendship is very deep and a true one, give him few hints and see his reaction. Talk in general about such things , not specific about his wife. You can prolong converstaion by just asking what he or you would do if such things happen in your lives. Based on his raection, you can further decide whether to further reveal or move away from the issue. If you talk to his wife, it may complicate the matter, as, in order to escape, she may implicate you with malintentions. There are no ready soultions, you have to act according to the time and situation.
2006-10-19 05:43:46 · answer #2 · answered by SGraja 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for right now i would do nothing. is your friend happy? do you think its only a fling, or maybe serious? consider your friends feelings first. think long and hard , before making a decision on what to do . sometimes people know, or have feeling that something is wrong, but choose to ignore it , so they don't loose their partner. just think it through and if in doubt, keep quiet!
2006-10-20 04:28:42 · answer #3 · answered by cee jay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Contact her, tell her you want some and a few bucks or you spill the beans xx
2006-10-19 05:26:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let the secret remain in the DARK.
2006-10-19 05:20:41 · answer #5 · answered by Rainbow 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let her do what she wants. U can also create relation with her.
What will u gain by droping her family in domestic problem ?
Yeh Kalyug hai piare.
2006-10-19 05:17:57 · answer #6 · answered by jolly boy 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It depends up on your friendship. You must tell your friend if you consider yourself as his true friend. If he is not your good friend, he may not belive you. In that case let it be a secret.
2006-10-19 05:27:48 · answer #7 · answered by Samir Mehta 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if the friend is not that close one, leave her wif to watever she has choosen for herself, dont interfere, for who knows ur friend might aswell do the same with oder woman!!
however, if he is ur best friend, talk it out first with the wife and then convince her to confide in her husband.
2006-10-19 05:23:25 · answer #8 · answered by mimpi 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just tell to ur friend everything and i think she must be punished as she cheated her husbond.
2006-10-19 05:32:00 · answer #9 · answered by Harshal M 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try to find a way, for him to discover it all by himself.
2006-10-21 09:34:31 · answer #10 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋