confused...?

Question

i'll try to express my fear/misunderstanding very briefly.

i believe that if you try your best that you will make it and have the kind of life you've pictured in your mind. however, i get really discouraged by reading about all that's going on. i love the good, uplifting news but I hate it when I read about someone's failure, tragedy, you name it...should i not be thinking about these at all? i am a very sensitive person and i get easily affected by that kind of stuff but i also think it's selfish not to think about other people's lives when things don't go the right way.

so i really have just 2 questions that bother me big time.

1. do you believe that if you work towards your goal, you will achieve it?

2. is it best to stop thinking about the negativity of this world unless I know someone personally that I can help, of course.

thanks

mr amtrak, if you're still reading, can you elaborate on that a little more, that's a great comment

thanx

Answer 1

u r very senstive thts why having trouble.....yes i belive when u work towards some goal u ,ll get it, well i ahve some religious opinion for myslef that if i could not get that, that thing was not good for me,n God had not made me to achieve that goal or that was not the proper time to get that, this belive make u feel good ,n other hand u r satisfied n dont get hurt.means this feelings will keep u from disappointment n u r able to try it again...i m just telling u my personal experince but once u work hard u just get it.
wheras for getting pain for others!!! see this world is full of troubles. n when u keep on thiking abt it, u ,ll lose ur way simple. u cant live normal with such feelings of disappointment n pitty for others.....n this thing ,ll effect ur concenteration towards ur life n all goals which u r meant to achieve.......n u know wht ,ll happen!!! neither u ,ll bea sucessful person nor wud u be of any use to ur society, then more depression n vicious cycle w,l start. my sincer advise is, its nice to feel good abt ur surrounding but dont take it to ur heart. well once u get some position, u ,ll b of some benifite n u,can disolve some of those mishappening ,being a good memberof ur society. just think positive, control ur nervers, n when somehting sad pinch u just think , that may be one day u ,ll be able to get that thing away from ur place...... Good Luck...

Answer 2

1,, when u have a target to achieve , u work hard for getting it ..thats the way it is .. u HAVE to workhard to acheive anything u want .. BUT by moral n ethical ways n legal too ..n rememeber if u dotn acheive it .. jsut think of it as GOD doesnt want this to happen ... n God Always think good for u .. so patience n tolerance r two big thigns which shud be followed to live a life of contenment ..
2. balance is required in this world in everythin...if start takin up all the negative things n aspects of life ..well get pessimest .,. n when u get pessimest n the forget ur aims .. coz that way u cnat acheive them.. U NEED OPTIMISM FOR SUCCESS ... n if u start thinkin abt all positive .. ull get over confident n ppl will start foolin u ... so best way is to be optimistic n think positive abt this world .. that way u b confident n u take thigns easily .. but too much of optisimism is not good .. u need little controversy to live happily n to be proud fo whatever u r ...!!!
3.u cant help every1 out there .. btu u must help those u know .. n those who r in the same circle of religion ... if whatever they r doin r rite .. then help but if u think they r doin wrong .. then DONOT support evil acts ...
WISH U BEST OF LUCK ..amen

Answer 3

I sometimes feel very upset when I constantly see unhappy news on tv, there seems to be so much trajedy at the moment its hard to not feel affected by it.
I try to feel more positive about the world by doing something positive to contribute to my community. Do some volunteer work, help someone even in small way and you can know that you have helped balance out the anger in this world with caring and kindness.
Good luck

Answer 4

in my apsect, you can obtain and do anything as long as you set goals for yourself and work on achieving. it isnt easy to not think negatively about the world, especially with all that is going. But always remember that if you help someone it is a good deed and no good deed goes unpunished,.

Answer 5

1) i believe that sometimes while i work for my goal that i also have to make compromises. "you can't always get what you want, but you just might find, you get what you need".
2) i use the serenity prayer: "god, grant me grant me the serenity to accept the things i can't change, the courage to change the things i can and the wisdom to know the difference. " if i can't do something about it then i don't worry over it.

Answer 6

Live your life within reason for yourself and all goals will be met.
If you are led in any directions of feelings it is definitely your heart. Now do remember that all hearts are not the same.