How does they make you feel loved? If they doesnt what are they doing wrong?
I want to know if there are any basic rules. It always seems too complicated.
2006-10-18 21:44:17 · 19 answers · asked by John T 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
actually it's not that complicated...
for me, a guy shud be true to his feelings...if he really feels the love, he'll show the love...
a sincere look in the the eye, sweet attention, gentle body moves, understanding and passion...those things are important.
i know my man loves me soooo much when he layed down on my lap when he's tired from the job, and he found no other comfortable place than myself, ask me to rubs his hair, hugs me me when im mad, or ready to do anythinng to pleasure me....
just be sincere and true to ur heart...all natural things is MUCH better...
we girls dun like pretenders..
good luck!
2006-10-18 21:57:39 · answer #1 · answered by aleea 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have the most amazing man in the world, and this is why! He hugs me for no reason. He's not controlling, he completely trusts me. He makes me smile and laugh, and is totally spontaneous. He brings me flowers, makes me dinner, tells me I look great on those days when I really don't want to leave the house without a bag over my head! lol No matter what's going on, I know he's there for me, and that's a really great feeling. keep in mind it's the little things like a kiss and a 'good morning' that really make a day brighter!!
2006-10-18 22:14:07 · answer #2 · answered by Jenna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me, its not the presents or the huge declarations of love, its the little things. Like making me a cup of tea before he goes to work. Giving me a hug when I've had a bad day at work - letting me whinge about my bad day at work! Letting me watch my favourite TV programmes and actually sitting there with me when its on. Going along with every insane idea I have for a fun night out and laughing with me when it all goes horribly wrong.
2006-10-18 22:06:15 · answer #3 · answered by claire c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a hundred and one ways - in the way he looks at me, in the smile of pride when he's by my side when we enter a room/party together, the way he squeezes my hand and holds it tighter if Im nervous, in the way he makes he loves to me, when he gets out of bed to bring me a drink, just because I ask him, when he mails/texts/sends cards/flowers etc when I have a major event or presentation to give to wish me luck and by telling me, without prompting.
I think the last one is one of the most important
2006-10-18 22:02:35 · answer #4 · answered by Pington 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My partner is my best friend. He shows that he wants to be with me all the time. His dreams and goals include me. His actions speak louder than words. There is much more, but basic things such as these, let me know how much he loves me.
2006-10-18 21:52:49 · answer #5 · answered by jamie2341 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
any girl will tell you its not about material things, gifts etc but of course they are a nice added bonus, it is the little things such as a back massage without coming on to you. a cup of tea in the morning before he leaves, a little card he leaves for you that tells you he loves you. us girls just want some one to be our soul mate and that is how we know we are loved. if they let us talk to them while there watching football, put our cold feet on there legs to warm them. to laugh together to cry together to be best friends, that's all we want.
2006-10-18 22:28:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the little things which make you feel loved.
You've mentioned that you like something (e.g. roast lamb), and you don't think he noticed or remembered. Then he cooks you a roast lamb dinner as a surprise. He cared enough to cook, AND you know that he listened to you.
Rule: Listen to her, and act on what you hear!
2006-10-18 21:50:01 · answer #7 · answered by Copper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My man calls me everyday and tells me that he loves me all the time. Look he does not have much to offer me (material) but his love make him the richest man on earth and he is sooooo good in bed, it is not all about him when we do it. He considers my feelings and admits when he is wrong. He is not perfect and I am not either but together we make one perfect couple
2006-10-18 22:03:50 · answer #8 · answered by Lovely 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Knowing when I need him or when I don't ~ being sympathetic and not being afraid to tell me how he is feeling. We can go days without even speaking cus we don't have to ~ know each other inside and out
2006-10-18 21:47:55 · answer #9 · answered by twixlicker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My man is the worlds best ever!!! He never lets me down, he has respect for me, tells me he loves me every day, buys me flowers every week, surprises me with little hings, gives me a cuddle every time i walk past him!!!! He is a total gentleman and i will never find anyone like him again!! He aint going no-where he is mine for life!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-18 23:03:42 · answer #10 · answered by Very Sexy Vixen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋