2006-10-18 21:32:52 · 6 answers · asked by seriousone37 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
No one, male or female, should be MADE to take care of the kids if they don't want them. But someone has to, and whoever has to do so should be willing to take the full responsibility.
However, kids (traditionally) made with two participants. It's not fair if one leaves the other with all the responsibility without reaching an agreement on it. Whoever ditched the childcare should be legally made to help suppport the children financially.
And there should be heavy punishment for those who don't.
Male OR female.
2006-10-18 21:39:09 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that the both parents share equal responsibiltiesfor the children. If divorced, I believe that both should support their children financially but equally. Unfortunately, the system isn't always fair. In instances where, the custodial parent is not working or has very limited income and the non-custodial parent is left to soley financially support the child is simply unfair.
2006-10-19 04:43:12 · answer #2 · answered by jamie2341 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When it comes to who should be the pimary caregiver I believe it is the person who is more responisble and the one that can give the kid the kind of life they deserve...and we're not talking just money here. The state should make it more a 50/50 balance because it does take 2 to make a baby. And it's not just men that don't pay...there are alot of money hungry females out there who use that money for themselves and not that kid or who don't pay the dad money...so yeah we should be cracking down more on the other parent.
2006-10-19 04:42:32 · answer #3 · answered by xxsanchabonitaxx 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All parents with conflicts over their children's custody and support should be legally bound to mediate until a consensus agreement is reached. Otherwise, their children suffer and so does society. As long as courts impose judgment favoring one side or another, the opposing part(ies) have not agreed to comply. That is what is wrong with our legal and political system.
2006-10-19 04:38:56 · answer #4 · answered by emilynghiem 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no,you should feel bless to be with the little one.
i know it's difficult when you're alone and the jurk#@$
don't pay.
but remember that the child is a partof you.and should have
the best of you,it's not fair to them,they did'nt ask to be born.
us mother don't quit being parent because the other did.
enjoy them it goes to fast...
take care sweetheart
isabelle
2006-10-19 04:40:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no as childrens belong to both women & men hence it bcoms the reposibility of both to look after them.
2006-10-19 04:37:38 · answer #6 · answered by pawan c 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋