2006-10-18 21:16:39 · 25 answers · asked by Mpho N 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You suffer and you hurt because nothing is clear. You have feelings for him/her, but you don't know if he/she has feelings for you. The only way out is to be brave and tell them. They might reject you, but it's better to know that than to wonder what might have happened if only you had told them. You could also be pleasantly surprised to find out that they are too scared to say the same thing to you. Don't spend your life wondering.
2006-10-18 21:31:51 · answer #1 · answered by AileneWright 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You muster up the courage and even if you know you will embarass yourself,stumble over the words (all the wrong ones that is), feel so silly that you think you would rather go climb back into bed and pray its only a dream......You look them dead in the face and tell them....You tell them 2 times and then you tell them why.
People waste so much time on what ifs? Don't live your life that way. Hold on buckle down and enjoy the ride
2006-10-18 21:25:53 · answer #2 · answered by xxsanchabonitaxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you afraid?
If you really love someone let me know quickly before someone else steals them!
Stick a note on their car/e-mail.
2006-10-18 21:20:31 · answer #3 · answered by Isabelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the in spite of your fear...If they hear you and do not want explore the possiblities of a realationship that is hard, but better for them to have a choice in that and for you to finally know their true feeling for you or how they look at you...I would want to know....Good luck
2006-10-18 21:21:01 · answer #4 · answered by LENNON3804 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Analyse your fear, see if it is well founded, if it is walk away. If not, then either dismiss your fears and tell her or let her know some other way - ie phone, text, email, via a friend, with flowers or wee her name in the snow.
2006-10-22 05:19:35 · answer #5 · answered by Amanda K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write them a letter u then can tell the person how u feel with out feeling stupid if the person doesnt love u back then they cannot laugh in ur face about it
2006-10-18 21:25:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hai,this is my experience. like to tell u seriously. i started loving a person, he also loved me. but both of us not expressed it in words. we know that we r in love,i got fear of telling him as he is elder to me so many years. and he also never got chance to express it. 1year passed every body who know both of us, know about our love. i thought, i will talk to him after my annual exams but oneday i received his wedding invitation before to my exams. I cant blame him coz he has his own reasons. thinking he is the best son for her mother i was dropped.
But thats the blunder we did. for today its a 7years past matter. now iam waiting here to see him once. i dont know how these 7 years passed, what is happiness what is enjoyment, what is life to live in??? still we are loving each other and dying for love. his wife also know our love and she know we r true , she is a best friend of mine. but nobody can do any thing. i cant be his life partner , we are just friends who chat by mobile only. till today i never discussed with him directly. but 2months back we shared sms only. Thats the mad love story of mine. still iam in love but i know i cant get him. Heart will never loose its pace maker, if so, it will loose its life. So my sincere advice is dont make ur love unknown to ur beloved particularly. all the best. have confidence. ur love will be accepted becoz its true.
2006-10-18 23:43:22 · answer #7 · answered by urs vennela 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you cannot tell the one you love that you do, then you dont love that someone, there should be complete understanding between the two for true love
2006-10-18 21:23:59 · answer #8 · answered by Merry-EL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them before it is too late ~ Good Luck
2006-10-18 21:37:34 · answer #9 · answered by twixlicker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send them an e-mail or write them a note.
2006-10-18 21:43:57 · answer #10 · answered by crazygranny72 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋