I was thinking of putting myself in a situation. ( the guy that has been eyeing me for months and I started liking him) so I have decided now that when he goes past me to work I will smile and wave do you think it will be a positive response he has been looking at me for months very intently!So I think I need to give some sort of signal what would you think if that happened to you (this girl waving and smiling at you)
2006-10-18 21:00:53 · 11 answers · asked by Fuck off 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Walking up to him and asking him out is a bit much for me small steps for now I can't handle more. My best friend wants us to go to the store he works at and look for a shirt for her brother (its a male clothing store Diesel etc) That freaks me out I think he will know as we have been looking at each other and how can he not know if I go in there all of a sudden!
2006-10-18 21:07:10 · update #1
It might work or you could just go up to him and ask him out for coffee or something.
2006-10-18 21:03:53 · answer #1 · answered by MJane21 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first real love for a woman lasted 3 years. It started out at a clothing store. I was offered a job, but decided not to take it and as I was leaving I saw this girl and we made eye contact for fraction of a second, but it was long enough for me to know that I was attracted to her.
I took the job because I wanted to be close to her. I didn't work directly with her, so I had to find reasons to go talk to her. I was really shy and was too nervous to just ask her out.
Eventually we just talked at work, then a little after work, then more after work, then I would drive her home, then we had our first kiss and the rest is history.
My advise to you, since your taking baby steps, is to make your self available for small talk. If thing click then small talk will lead into longer talks and so on.
I hope this helps...Good Luck...
2006-10-18 21:17:25 · answer #2 · answered by Jerrid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to your friend it would be a big hint and if he doesnt get it then hes blind but with any luck hell be working and hell come up to the 2 of you and offer you all kinds of help picking ashirt for her brother and this way youll have her there and she can help you brake the ice a little i think its a great idea maybe if you look and wave one day and then go to the store the next if htat doesnt work i dont know what will but i think your a hsoe in
2006-10-18 21:57:28 · answer #3 · answered by chester 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U will only be showing him that u have noticed the way he looks at you. He might be shy & thats why he hasn't made a move on his own. He might be waiting for u to make the first move. All u can do is try, if it works great, if not there is always more fish in the sea. take care
2006-10-18 21:06:04 · answer #4 · answered by lori 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a girl started smiling and waving at me, I would definitely be a little more comfortable approaching her and saying "Hi". I think it will work. Good luck!!!!
2006-10-18 21:04:33 · answer #5 · answered by rugerp89222 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look you have to act positive.
accomity to the last question I think she likes me(in my view point).but for anyone else its a bad thing.try to hold yourself on in front of him.and if you see him dont even look at him till he calles you name
2006-10-18 21:11:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you need action more than thinking. Act and you will get him.
2006-10-18 21:49:12 · answer #7 · answered by kingoftheworld 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it, why not, what do you possibly have to lose? you only live once.
2006-10-18 21:16:24 · answer #8 · answered by devildog75 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep
2006-10-18 21:03:40 · answer #9 · answered by Dr Dee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that is a brilliant idea
2006-10-18 21:13:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋