I was hooking up with a friend for a couple of weeks as if we were a couple whilst his girlfriend was away on holidays which i know was a horrible thing to do, even if i dont know her . She arrived back and he still calls me and we hang out and what not behind her back.i do have feelings for him but havnt told him. He told me today they will be having a break and he will be moving out. Should i wait for him to persue me? Or is this a sign he wants things with us to go further?
2006-10-18 20:47:31 · 10 answers · asked by Nik 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he is probable stucked in the middle between you 2 so he might take a break to think about who he wants to be with
2006-10-18 20:51:28 · answer #1 · answered by efedrin2006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this whole "im breaking up with her" thing is sudden, then there arevstrong chances that he likes you.
Dont sneak around behind her back to hang out with him, but hanging out with him isnt a bad thing
After this whole thing is over betwen them, talk some more to see how intrested he really is
2006-10-19 03:53:11 · answer #2 · answered by Nicole P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well let him know you are interested and you would like to be the first girl in line, when he is ready to get serious again.
Otherwise let him keep maintaining you, and see where it goes from their.
But I wouldn't push him into anything too fast, he might just run the other way.
2006-10-19 03:54:34 · answer #3 · answered by In Love n confused 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should wait. Let him sort of it. Maybe they haven't fully broken up yet. Do you want to force the issue? Also, do you really want to be the reason they broke up? If he broke up with her to go after you, then he'll come. If not, then he might not be ready to start a relationship with you.
2006-10-19 03:52:56 · answer #4 · answered by Michelle R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! I tink u better lead ur own life since it just started a fortnight. I guess it's just a wrong timing of meeting him. Ask urself, wat u think abt him? When u become his GF & u'r nt in town, will u b supicious over him? If yes, den forget it. It's ur life, i can only give u advise but not leading ur path.. Think twice, Gal.
2006-10-19 03:54:31 · answer #5 · answered by kudos Qi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think of how the other girl would feel if she found out.. now how would you feel if you found out he was going out behind your back. now get use to it.. he did it once that you know of and now he's working on you.. sure wish i could be 35 years younger.. girls are so easy now days.. wake up!
2006-10-19 03:57:01 · answer #6 · answered by denfasr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be very cautious. If he is cheating on his gf who's to say he wouldn't do the same to you. Put yourself in her shoes. Even though you don't know her it is still wrong.
2006-10-19 03:54:38 · answer #7 · answered by kitten 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wants more.but id leave him alone.if he did this to her then why wouldnt he do it to u
2006-10-19 03:55:21 · answer #8 · answered by angel girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not go after
2006-10-19 03:55:39 · answer #9 · answered by gunetilake 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why cant ppl leave couples alone!!!???
2006-10-19 03:53:47 · answer #10 · answered by cillahblues 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋