how come it is so hard to walk away from some one you really love ?

Question

y is it so hard? i really like him, but i no its the rite thing to do because i dont want to get hurt, but do u know y it is so hard?

when i say i dont wanna get hurt, i mean i dont want him to reject me or break up wif me, not hitten me and ****!

Answer 1

I know what you mean my dear and we've all been in your situation one time or more before we found the right person for us.
The human mind and heart are designed in a way that when they find someone or something they like, they get emotionally attached to it and separation from it becomes very hard, even if they know for sure that this is not the right person or the right thing for them. This is exactly why it's hard to let go of someone you like.
The other thing is, people, and especially women tend to create this ideal image and idea of the one person you like which you cannot have for some reason or the other. This is why they feel their loss of that person is so big, while in reality he's just a human being like all the others who eats, drinks, poops, gets sick and wakes up with morning breaths, drowsy eyes and messed up hair.
If you really know staying away is the right thing to do but you cannot do it, go for a holiday somewhere where you can meet new people and do interesting things that you've never done before.

Answer 2

First off you need to define the word "love". If what you mean is committed affection over a long period of time then of course I can tell you why it is so difficult to walk away from.

It is simple. It is that no one wishes to invest large quantities of time and energy into a project that is unfruitful or disappointing. It is the investment, and the discouraging returns upon your good will that hurts the most.

Be assured though, that you should invest this time into yourself and not someone else, for the returns are always in your favor.

It is the investment...it is the energy...that is the answer.

Answer 3

i have been told that love does not really exists when you get hurt i mean some people dont know what love means, and the only reasons why its so hard is beacause you are attach with that persons presence and the way u feel around him

Answer 4

its so hard to walk away from the person you love because you always want the person to be in your life and have your back its hard but you have to follow your heart if it tells you to leave then you need to leave him your heart will hurt but it will not tell you wrong hope this helps

Answer 5

As u already said... he/she is the one u really love... if u dun love him/her, u would have forgotten him/her.... But life still need to carry on... so look for the bright side and future and let go of all ur unhappiness.... keep those happiness that is with him/her inside deep in your heart...

Answer 6

Its hard because you care for him. You need to continually reassure yourself that you are doing the right thing. <3

Answer 7

Because you have a heart. He touched your heart, spirit and/or soul somehow. You're human, once you care about someone...yeah, it's hard to erase memories that matter to your heart.

Answer 8

Because the nuerons in your brain form connections that make it delightful to be with a guy even if he is a loser that beats you up.

Answer 9

i know you feel right know. cause i feel the same. i love a girl. but i know she doesnt belong to me. its hard to forget bout her. every body's hurt. its just small part of life.

Answer 10

some people have low self esteem and or afraid to leave because they dont want to be alone